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armourall
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If your sister hit on your husband...
armourall
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WWYD?
First I want to say that my husband and I have a lot of probelms in our marriage that we are working with a counselor on, but loyalty is not one of those problems.
We are house sitting for my grandparents while they are on vacation, they live next door to my parents. A couple of my sisters live with my parents, one sister has been having probelms and has stolen from my granparents, so when she was acting strange this weekend, calling to see if we were there, or if we were going to dinner (when we wern't invited), we thought maybe she thought my grandparents being out of town was her chance to steal again.
This morning DH called to tell me something really awkward just happened. I asked him what, and he said that my sister was just over there, she told him she was really horny... I asked him what he said, he said he didn't know what to say so he just sat there silent until she left. I asked what do I say? He thinks I shouldn't say anything, that she knew he thought she was being stupid cause she left. He really can't stand her in the first place, and now just doesn't want us to talk to her. I don't really want to talk to her either but at the same time I want to scream at her, "WTF!"
I'm really freaking out! My sister?! Am I thinking about this way to much? Over reacting? WWYD?
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Re: If your sister hit on your husband...
It depends on the relationship. Is she a minor? I'd definitely talk to her and maybe even your parents!
That is wrong in so many ways! She sounds troubled and most likely looking for attention! But still a serious matter for sure!
I'd be really upset as well! I don't think you are overracting at all!
Your husband is probably embarrassed which is why he doesn't want you to talk to her.
But I would definitely bring it up to her for sure.
I would just say to her that the comment she made was inappropriate & made your DH feel really uncomfortable & not to say shiit like that in front of your husband anymore.
We all know she has issues, but I don't think anyone realized it was this bad... she's my older sister too, 25.
Thank you ladies, I needed to hear that I'm not freaking out over nothing. I'm sure as PP said my husband it just embarrassed, but him not wanting to talk about it made me feel like maybe I was overreacting. I think I'm going to talk to my Mom first, I don't know how to talk to my sister anymore.
That could be, but I don't know where she'd think he'd go, DD was napping. I'll keep that in mind when I talk to my mom about the whole incident.
That is really weird and messed up! Maybe, just maybe, could she be weird enough to talk about that w/o it meaning she's hitting on your husband? I know probably not, but just throwing it out there. Regardless, very strange and inappropriate, not to mention awkward! Was she drunk/high at the time, and maybe she didn't know what she was saying?
Just trying to think of some sort of rationale here, good luck dealing with her, and good idea I think of going to your mom as well, maybe she can help. Update us if you can!
I don't really see what going to your parents is going to do considering she's 25 years old.
I'd freak out if one of my sisters did that, and you can be damn sure that I'd be going to her and asking wtf she was thinking. Then I'd promptly tell her to either get some therapy or stay the eff away from my family until she does.
Me: 37
DH: 36
Married: 08-25-07
DS: 11-20-09
Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken
This.