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I HATE my MIL...

jkm123jkm123
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ok I know hate is a very strong word... but quite honestly its the only one that will work... She and my SIL, as I have said before, have been such Biatches since my m/c.. well on Wednesday I did my MIL's hair... as I was foiling her hair she decides to tell me that some distant relative that I have never even met is Pregnant... and how she is only like 6 weeks along and how you should "never tell that early... and that she is just appauled that she told"... ok well I told our families when I was 6 weeks... obviously I wasnt announcing it to the world bc I knew not to do that, but ok why dont you just slap me in the face lady.... and then she tells me that God sends babies, and when he is ready for me to have one he will send it..... I returned with yes he does send them....but he also takes them away... its in the bible biatch.... read about it....

Then I told her that we were having a cookout for my DH's bday on friday nigt with his friends and so we would do family bday on sunday... Dh's brother was invited to the cookout of course because he is friends with all of my husbands friends.... Well The MIL and SIL were acting mad bc they werent invited... UGH.... seriously? why would you be? She thinks beer is a sin, and nobody like you.... FIGURE IT OUT LADY.....

Sorry rant over... but I do hate her... genuinely. it sounds petty but after all that she has said and done to me in the past 3 months... this is just icing on the cake.

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  • OrangeCrush9OrangeCrush9
    How insensitive and immature of her; I'm sorry you have to deal with that.  What IS it with MILs and SILs?  Mine are horrid, too!
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  • b2b999b2b999
    I am so sorry - if it makes you feel better my actual mother is that way. (luckily my MIL is not so at least I have refuge there if I was getting it from both sides I would lose my mind.) 
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  • verona_1999verona_1999

    Sorry you have to deal with someone like that in your life!

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  • vflipovflipo member
    Yikes! I'm sorry you have to deal with that!
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  • Brady1*Brady1*

    UGH You have one too huh? They are the worst! Mine is so passive aggressive it makes me sick! I finally put her in her place one night and stood up for myself and she hasn't really done anything mean since then. I have to say though when I had my m/c she was there for me more than my own mother. Day to day she's a biitch but when it really counts she's a good lady and there for me. 

    I'm sorry yours is a Biitch all the time Sad ((HUGS))  

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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    Ugh - I am sorry your MIL is so bad.  Mine is annoying sometimes, but not nearly as bad as yours.  I swear sometimes mine just says things without thinking.  I hope you can keep her at arms length and I think I would tell her to get her hair done somewhere else!! 
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Oh the outlaws...Right now I can relate...My sil just found out she is pg with #2 after only 2 months of trying...And she is just flaunting it around and rubbing it in my face...So to all the horrid outlaws in this world - go fly a kite!
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  • jkm123jkm123
    Thanks girls... Also I am so sorry for those of you who are dealing with the same inlaw pains... whether it be SIL or MIL or just regualar moms... I would go crazy without you all!!!! and I think I will put them both in their place very very soon!
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  • MIZZOU527MIZZOU527 member
    What a b!tch!  If it makes you feel better...I hate mine too!  :)  You're not alone!!!  I give you credit for still being polite to her...we don't speak to DH's parents and they live 5 minutes from us.  (Literally)  {{HUGS}} to you and VENT ANY TIME!  I found it helps!  :)
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  • dc2heartsdc5dc2heartsdc5
    mother in laws are the worst part of marriage
    Married 11/08/08 TTC since 2009 MC 3/22/10 at 9w4d MC 7/20/10 at 6w5d Homeowners since 2/24/11 BFP Father's Day 6/19/11 Pregnancy Ticker Psalm 139:13,15-16 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb... You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.
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  • dc2heartsdc5dc2heartsdc5

    imageMIZZOU527:
    What a b!tch!  If it makes you feel better...I hate mine too!  :)  You're not alone!!!  I give you credit for still being polite to her...we don't speak to DH's parents and they live 5 minutes from us.  (Literally)  {{HUGS}} to you and VENT ANY TIME!  I found it helps!  :)

    how did you manage that...we live two hours away and the lady still drives me crazy

    Married 11/08/08 TTC since 2009 MC 3/22/10 at 9w4d MC 7/20/10 at 6w5d Homeowners since 2/24/11 BFP Father's Day 6/19/11 Pregnancy Ticker Psalm 139:13,15-16 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb... You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.
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  • cavila15cavila15

    imageJayandTay09:
    Oh the outlaws...Right now I can relate...My sil just found out she is pg with #2 after only 2 months of trying...And she is just flaunting it around and rubbing it in my face...So to all the horrid outlaws in this world - go fly a kite!

    My SIL told me, when DH and I got married, that she was going to start trying when she went home from the wedding, and of course, got pg with #2 after trying for 2 months too! To top it off, her Dh and her were going to divorce just 3 months before our wedding!!! Irritated and P/O indeed!

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