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I think I need to POAS...

ChelM1216ChelM1216
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If for nothing else but my own piece of mind...not that I would really mind it much since I would still love more kids.

DH swears he doesn't want more but then he sure doesn't care much for avoiding either...he hates condoms but that really is our only option currently since BCPs make the adenomyomas grow more.  So i know we haven't been very careful.

And I am totally paranoid now.  I just have had few things here and there..like outrageous hurt burn or just feeling like crap or super tired.  I know doesn't mean much, but with feeling paranoid...I think it is time to just bit the bullet and POAS.  AF hasn't even returned yet but we basically EBF, so I wasn't expecting it anyways....but you just never know.

Now trying to get out without DH thinking much of it LOL

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Re: I think I need to POAS...

  • jen-dalejen-dale member

    I've POAS a few times for peace of mind. We aren't as careful as we should be for basically the same reasons you aren't. I do have 2 friends that were BF and got KU before AF ever showed up. I've had two cycles already which makes me even more nervous if/when DH and I actually have time to FWOP.

    GL to you!!

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  • PurpleK26PurpleK26 member

    I'm not BFing at all anymore, and I know when I O and I still get nervous too. We're doing pull and pray, and it's gone really well except for one oops! I've been totally freaked about DH if I did get pg again, but last night he told the company that we had over that 'we're not trying, but if it happens it's ok' ... really DH News to me!

    Good Luck! Go POAS and report back ASAP! 

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    imagePurpleK26:

    I'm not BFing at all anymore, and I know when I O and I still get nervous too. We're doing pull and pray, and it's gone really well except for one oops! I've been totally freaked about DH if I did get pg again, but last night he told the company that we had over that 'we're not trying, but if it happens it's ok' ... really DH News to me!

    Good Luck! Go POAS and report back ASAP! 

    e P&P too and I swear DH "forgets: on purpose!Indifferent

     

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
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  • ChelM1216ChelM1216

    Yeah many times we are P&P and I just find it funny because he tells everyone that we are done.  Doesn't seem to "done" to me if he really just sometimes forgets lol...

     I guess we will see...

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