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Have you let LO CIO yet?

sarahmae8sarahmae8 member
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I am not trying to start anything here, but I need some help. DS is 4.5 months old and too young, in my opinion, to let him CIO. However, I have been sick so I had DH put DS to bed last night and it was a total fail. DS screamed his head off, as if he was dying. It was heartbreaking. I could not stand to hear him cry like that and DH was determined to put him to bed (obviously, he rarely EVER puts DS to bed). So I went in and soothed him a few times. Within moments, he was calmed down and I would lay him back in DH's arms and within seconds, he was crying again. I hated every second of it but after 30 min, he fell asleep. DH or I were holding him the entire time and I wonder if we had just let him alone in his crib if the same thing would have happened and what's the difference? Please help! Thanks!
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  • Tinkx123xTinkx123x
    No... I have planned to let DS CIO before, but I cannot do it! I always think what if x,y,z? and then I run in and soothe him.
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  • campbell2178campbell2178
    I haven't had the heart to do it yet either.  I read the Baby Sleep Book by Dr. Sears. I found the book very helpful.  Good luck!
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  • MrsWalker81608MrsWalker81608
    We just started letting DD CIO after her 6 mo appointment.  We don't just leave her though.  We leave her door open a crack and check on her every minute or so.  If she keeps it up for more than 5 minutes we go in and rub her tummy, side or back to calm her down.  Once she's a little calmer we leave and start the process over again.  We've been doing it for almost 2 weeks now and her fits are getting shorter and shorter.  She rarely hits 5 minutes now.  I think that 4.5 months is a little young to start this though.  I don't think that we'd even have considered it then.  It still kills us and we know that she's old enough to get it now.
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  • ENevENev member

    Pediatricians say four months is the age at which you can do it, and I know several people who have started CIO at four months, but I think it's a bit young.

    We started when he was 6 months, but then he got sick and got a bunch of teeth. Now, though, we started again a few weeks ago and he's sleeping like a CHAMP and hardly crying at all at night anymore. When he wakes up, he may cry for a minute or two, or just whine, but then he goes back to sleep. It's awesome.

    I say as long as you know your baby is healthy, dry, and fed, CIO is the best solution for getting your baby to STTN! 

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  • diana.filipidiana.filipi member

    When we moved DD to the crib at 3 1/2 months we spent about 2 weeks deswaddling and then another week or two walking or nursing her to sleep before putting her in the crib.  After that, so about 4 1/2 months we went to a 'drowsy but not necessarily asleep' routine where she would be allowed to cry for no more than 15 min before we soothed/ checked her.  It took us 2-3 nights for this to be cool with us and cool with her. She almost never cries for more than a couple min. now if that even.

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  • smilelarismilelari member
    Until LO has a more polite way of communicating tired, hungry, bored, lonely, etc he will not be left to CIO
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  • SarahPirateSarahPirate member
    At 7 months. It is rare but we have. Only when no soothing works at all though. Sometimes he just gets overtired.
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  • dragonsmercydragonsmercy member

    imageSarahPirate:
    At 7 months. It is rare but we have. Only when no soothing works at all though. Sometimes he just gets overtired.

    Pretty much this, except 7.5 months, and mines a she, rather than he. We've only really let her "cry it out" twice, and that was while we were in the car (both times), and she was just over-stimulated, over-tired, and no amount of soothing worked, so I just finally got a hat put over her eyes so she couldn't see all the street lights, and said "let her cry" because it's all we could do. First time she cried for a good 20 minutes, but we spent the first 15 trying to really soothe her (singing to her, fanning cooler air in her face, etc), and the second time, I just let her cry for the full 20 minutes. Soothing just wasn't working.

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  • LoriSTiLoriSTi
    Last night we kind of did. I don't know if it counts since it was only for 3 mins. DS had a horrible night last night. He was in bed at 9pm up at 12am and wouldn't go back to sleep untl 3am. Then he slept tl 4:30am and at 5:30am he was still awake. My husband and I were takng turns soothing him. At 5:30am he started crying. I can tell the difference in his cries so DH and I let him cry and as soon as I heard his cry change I went in put his paci in and he fell right to sleep. Id say he only cried for like 3 mins though.
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