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I give up...

JayandTay09JayandTay09
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
I seriously am at the point of giving up...Today my fh friend who never wanted kids, but oops ends up pg had her baby...Then my fh sil emails me to tell me after 2 months of trying they are pg with their 2nd...And apparently I didn`t act happy enough for her...So she lectured me...NOT A GOOD IDEA! I may or may not have sent a really nasty reply email, that may or may not mean we won`t speak for awhile...Which is fine by me...I don`t need to listen to her self-righteous fertile-hoe bs...I am DONE!
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    butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs))

    Jenn

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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    ShemicoShemico member
    *hugs*
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    4 losses (cp Feb 28 09, mc April 9 09 (5w5d), mc Aug 10 09 (7w1d), d&c Apr 12 10 (grew to 6w3d, mc confirmed at 8w5d). RX: Overies PCOS (hormones normal) & Balanced Translocation of Ch. 7 & 13 (40-50% mc risk)

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    jen629jen629 member
    I am sorry {{{HUGS}}}
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
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    ashleyy0219ashleyy0219
    I'm so sorry (((hugs)))
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    grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    I'm sorry.  :(
    Welcome to the world, Baby Grr!

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    ERICA21779ERICA21779
    (((hugs))))   a little distance never hurt anyone..........certainly if she thinks it is helpful to lecture you
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    mdm2137mdm2137
    ((hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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    KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Hugs.  I'm sorry.  Lecturing is not a good idea.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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    TyraTalksTyraTalks

    Big hugs, honey.

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    BeenBadAndGotBannedBeenBadAndGotBanned
    Ugh. So sorry you had to listen to that. And a lecture? For real?!
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    OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    (((hugs))) How insensitive of your SIL.  I'm sorry honey.
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    summerbee1summerbee1 member

    (((Big HUGS))). Good for you to stand up for yourself. I can't believe FHs and their lectures. My patience is about [] yay big for that kind of crap.

    I got a birthday card this week from a friend of my MIL that said, "the secret to life is learning to accept things" obviously in reference to my m/c. W.T.F. Needless to say I won't be talking to her for a while. I'm sick and tired of IRL people not understanding.  

    I hope things get easier for you.

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