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Sort of a S/O of the condom post

emilykristene2006emilykristene2006 member
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My 10 year old niece told my aunt that a 13 year old boy in their neighborhood told her to keep her window open one night. She asked why and he said he would come in her room and they could have sex. She was completely grossed out. She told him she has a boyfriend. His response? "Mine's bigger."

She told her mom and then her dad. Her dad was ready to kick to boy's ass. My niece was worried that everyone in the neighborhood would call her a snitch. The boy later asked her dad where she was. Her dad just said he was not allowed to go around her anymore. The boy told everyone in the neighborhood and now all the kids are treating her awful.

My DH told him he should have told her to tell the boy she left it unlocked. When he comes in, beat the crap out of him since he would be an intruder. Then have him arrested for B&E.

I don't know how I would have handled it, but hopefully my DD will feel she comfortable telling me something like this.

What would you have done?

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  • docmay25docmay25 member
    That is tough.  I understand not wanting to cause problems with the other kids for her and embarrassing her, but that sounds serius to me and she is only 10.  I would talk to his parents.  let them know what he is doing and that he is not allowed near her or their house.
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  • firefightersgalfirefightersgal member

    imagedocmay25:
    That is tough.  I understand not wanting to cause problems with the other kids for her and embarrassing her, but that sounds serius to me and she is only 10.  I would talk to his parents.  let them know what he is doing and that he is not allowed near her or their house.

    This.  It's tough, but not something you want to ignore, either. 

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  • elm1032004elm1032004

    The first think I would have done was gone to talk to the boys parents.

    Depending on the way they handled it I would determine my next steps.  I would also have a very frank conversation with my daughter. 

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  • EliseB0323EliseB0323
    I would have gone to the boy's parents. If that was my son, I would want the opportunity to handle the situation.
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  • Marce921Marce921 member

    imageEliseB0323:
    I would have gone to the boy's parents. If that was my son, I would want the opportunity to handle the situation.

    Ditto this, but some parents just don't care (as horrible as that is). But, I'd at least want to make them aware of what he is doing. If he continued, my next step would be to call the police.

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  • emilykristene2006emilykristene2006 member

    Well, I just told my niece that I thought she should let her dad talk to the boy's parents since everyone already knows. This way maybe he can learn that he should not talk to girls like this.

    She said the boy and another boy were fighting the other day. The boy would not hit the other boy. She witnessed his father punch him in the chest. 

    Something tells me the boy does not have great parental figures.

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