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I can do this

wntrbride05wntrbride05 member
in TTC After a Loss
My assistant is in the hospital at 6 cm and they were just told she should be pushing in the next couple of hours.  I felt my heart sink a little when I heard how close this baby is to being here.  I can do this!  I can make it through the day and get through everyone talking to me about it, I know I can!  I am so excited for her, but so sad in my heart for me.  Sad
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  • halsgalhalsgal
    You can SO DEFINITELY do this! We are all so much stronger than we know. (((hugs)))
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  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse
    You can do it! Vent on here all day if you must - anything to get you through the day!
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  • MrsPattersonMrsPatterson member
    You can do this, you are strong!  Your mixed emotions are so normal (as I'm sure you know) and it's ok to be more sad than you are happy.
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  • Ssweets04Ssweets04 member

    Yes you can do this, you can get through the sadness cause you are strong. ((hugs))

    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member
    You can do this!
    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Gregsbride22Gregsbride22 member
    You can, big hugs!
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  • Pumpkin62307Pumpkin62307
    I'm Sorry sweetie! ((((HUGS)))) But, yes you CAN do this!! And you know why? Cause this is going to be your cycle!
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  • luvsbunnyluvsbunny member
    You are a great and strong person and I know you can do it ;)
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  • Summerstarr2Summerstarr2 member

    Oh, I know how hard that is. I had a co-worker who sits right next to me have a baby (or rather his wife had the baby) less than 2 weeks after I started to miscarry.

    I felt like every person in the office came up to me for updates, so there I was trying to act excited and showing off pictures for him, all while I really just wanted to go hide away and cry.

    I felt like I couldn't even breathe, it was so suffocating. But, I got through it, and it got easier as time has gone by. And it will be that way for you too! You CAN do it!

    ((big, big hugs))

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  • honeybeeehoneybeee
    Stay strong.  I am sad for you just thinking about what you are going through.  Big hugs.  You can do it!
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  • wntrbride05wntrbride05 member
    Have I mentioned how much I LOVE this board!  You girls are so supportive and never flame.  I was afraid to post that and get flammed.
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  • moniquittamoniquitta

    YOu can do this.  A few days ago there was a girl on my local board who gave birth to her son.... she announced her pg a week and a half after I announced mine.  I was happy for her, but yet feeling that it should have been me. In my case I chickened out and avoided the board for the rest of the day.

     Big big hugs... you can do it.

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  • mrs.amandammmrs.amandamm member
    Hugs and good luck!
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  • mmcrockermmcrocker
    I am so sorry!  You can DO this and make it through the day.  If you need to cry tonight at home, let it out.  Sometimes it feels better to let it out.
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  • soon2beKKsoon2beKK
    You can DEFINITELY do this!  You are strong, and today will be over before you know it!  Good luck and lean on us if you need to.
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  • jamie.LOVES.markjamie.LOVES.mark
    BIG hugs..you can do it!
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