Sex After Baby

Re: Sex After Baby

• BabyLove987

  June 2010

  I'm happy.  It is pretty much the same as pre-baby.
  

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• kkalina

  June 2010

  Ours is pretty good! We have always had a good sex life. We have been doing alot of foreplay and goofing around more than intercourse lately, mainly because I havent decided on what kind of BC I want to be on and we dont have condoms around.

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• Marc's Mrs. member

  June 2010

  Not exactly.  We've had sex twice since DD was born.    I'm breastfeeding and exhausted most of the time now that I'm back to work so I have zero drive.  I'm lucky that DH hasn't been hounding me or anything but I do feel bad

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• Mrs. Beals

  June 2010

  Mine is aweful since I never healed correctly.  I am in pain all the time! I am getting corrective surgery soon. 

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• ScissorTailedFlycatcher member

  June 2010

  We have as much fun as we did pre-DD. I might even say it is better than before. 

  Yum. Now I may have to get me some. 

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• ella.mabel member

  June 2010

  Still major pain.  Only happened 5 times so far.

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• NeverKnew member

  June 2010

  Sex is very uncomfortable for me still.  And it's frustrating.  I know if I don't nip it in the bud then I'll probably start subconsciously avoiding it to avoid the unpleasantness.  Sigh.  I have no idea what to do.

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• justrachet member

  June 2010

  I'm happy with it, especially since my pelvic floor physical therapy worked out most of my pain. I just get the tiniest bit of sore tension around my scar, but if we lube up enough it's not painful at all.

  P.S. If you're still having pain, I recommend physical therapy! I was in pain every day for the first 4 months, sex or not, and I've been 95% pain free for the past 6 weeks.

  
  

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• wendic22

  June 2010

  i still have little bits of pain and still healing. Have you not healed at all and thats why you have to get surgery??

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• Brytany09

  June 2010

  Sex? What's that? Seriously. We used to have sex every day. We haven't done it in like a month. It is uncomfortable for me and I never feel sexy. Poor DH. Maybe if Lia actually sleeps tonight we will try it.
  

  
  M/C Dec 2010 - 5w5d Missing my sweet angel baby.

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• fromymom

  June 2010

  We've only had sex two times since DS was born. DH went on a new medication and one of the side affects that was it makes it harder to O. So that combined with the fact that I seem to still be tender did not make for a pleasent experience. I am seing my OB on Monday to see if I am healing correctly. It makes me sad.

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• sal32

  June 2010

  I was just lurking, but had to jump in.  I'm so glad I'm not the only one who hasn't got my mojo back yet.  I read posts all the time on 0-3 from those who jump in the sack before their 6-week checkups and it's awesome.  I wish I felt like that, but I'm pretty far from it.  I don't have any pain, exactly, but it's sort of uncomfortable, and by the time the kiddos are in bed all I feel like doing is going to sleep.  It makes me sad too.

  I know it'll get better, because it did after DD#1, but it's hard in the meantime. 

  

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• lilhotcandie69 member

  June 2010

  I'm pretty happy with it. Its not as much as it use to be but I'm actually okay with it cause I don't have the energy like I use too. I'm sure BF would like it more though.

  

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