Tell this BIG effing BLACK CLOUD to go AWAY!

linz85 · June 2010

First- My Mom Mom whom I am very close to, goes very down hill right around the time we find out we were pregant

Then-My Mom Mom passes away

Next, I miscarry the baby a few weeks later, in a hospital room...

Two days later I'm back in the hospital with severe bleeding, dehydration and severe pain

Finally get over the M/C and things are going pretty well. My job transfer went through, we signed a lease on a new, cheaper and much larger condo...wedding plans going well everything is awesome

Cut to FI and I having a fun tickle session and raring around, he rears his head back and clocks me square in the temple...I black out for a second and spend the next three hours disoriented and nauseous....ER confirms CONCUSSION.

Then my BF gets Engaged after dating her BF for only six months of knowing each other...trying so hard to be happy, but its just hard with everything else going on and now i feel like im sharing the engagement/wedding thunder

Cut to Father's Day...I am woken up by my Uncle telling me my dad was in a horrible Motorcycle accident in New Jersey...his Girlfriend was Killed and he is in Critical condition.

Link to News Article Here:

https://www.mycentraljersey.com/article/20100621/NEWS/100621022/1010/NEWS0203/UPDATE++Bedminster+accident+fatality+on+I-78+results+in+vehicular+homicide+charge

I hightail it to NJ where I am put under WAYY to many decisions and pressures for a 24 year old....but My dad is doing better at least...but now we found out he may lose his LEG.

Then today we are on our way home from NJ, my Mom and I will be going back for updates Wed-Sat or so.....My FI gets a text that his Grandpa is in the hospital....

SERIOUSLY...WHAT THE F...K

Lorange-8 · June 2010

Hunny, I'm sorry. Sending you HUGS and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!!

(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))

betizzle73 · June 2010

OH my goodness! How horrible! I am sooooo sorry that you're going through all of these things at once. That's great that your dad is doing okay. I'm going to read the news article in a second, but I'm so sorry to hear about his girlfriend. My fiance rides a Harley and it scares the $h!t out of me every time he gets on it. I hope your fiance's grandfather is okay, and that things REALLY start looking up from here!

betizzle73 · June 2010

I'm also sorry about the idiot that made the pagan/biker comment on the news thing! how awful. People seriously (as we all know very well by now from what we've been through) just sometimes have NO compassion. Like I said, my fiance and his dad both ride harleys and they aren't scary Pagans! so stupid. Anyway, I'm really sorry again for what you're going through. I would love it if you would give us an update on your dad when you find out more. I hope his leg ends up okay!

jerriesgirl · June 2010

I'm so sorry about all of things you have been going thru. I hope your dad and your FI's grandfather heal quickly. My DH has a Suzuki motorcycle and even though I know how much he loves it, my blood pressure goes up when he goes out riding.

Take care of yourself. (((hugs)))

biddy53178 · June 2010

thus adding to my vote to delete june off the calender- this month has totally sucked! im very sorry for all your heartbrake and hope things start to turn around soon-

liveforhim · June 2010

I am sooo sorry to hear everything that has been going on! Many thoughts and prayers are coming your way:) ((HUGS))

daisy142 · June 2010

I am so sorry you're going through all of this. They say when it rains, it pours, but sometimes we seem to get a frigging monsoon. Sending thoughts, prayers, and hugs your way.

BlakeG · June 2010

I am so sorry. I hope your dad and your FI grandfather get better soom. Unfortunately when it rains, it pours. The month that I miscarried, we had 8 deaths. One of my friends said maybe it's the universe getting all the bad stuff out of the way and once things start getting better it will be smooth sailing and only good things will happen. I'm still waiting for that part but I really do hope she's right. Hang in there ((hugs))

aimstheawesome · June 2010

I am so sorry for everything that's been going on...I know what you mean about a black cloud, though my black cloud isn't nearly as big as yours. It really does seem like when it rains it pours and one thing after another happens. I hope that things will get better and that your Dad will be okay. Hang in there and take care of yourself! (((( Hugs ))))

Lkat17 · June 2010

I'm so sorry for all the pain and losses you've experienced recently. My heart goes out to you!! I hope the clouds will clear and things will brighten for you very soon. ((((Hugs)))

a&b=him&me · June 2010

omg, this is so much to handle at one time. I am praying for your continued strength - and also for a fast, safe, and good recovery for your dad. I am hoping he doesn't have to lose his leg!

@Betsy, the people who make those comments are always full of ignorance. I see similar comments like that on our newspaper articles as well. Seriously, they have nothing better to do with their time.

shanna82 · June 2010

So sorry that all this bad luck/stuff is coming your way! It has to just go up from here, right? Well, no one can guarantee that, but I do really hope everything gets better! *hugs*

linz85 · June 2010

Thank you thank you thank you Ladies

You are all very very amazing and supportive which is why I even had the strength to post in the first place. I haven't heard much regarding my FI's grandpa other than possibly cancer or a stroke, but nothing is definitive yet....

My dad seems to be doing better. He was transferred out of the ICU to a regular room today but they're still unsure as to whether or not he'll be able to keep the leg and the stress of figuring out how to get him transferred has been beyond anything I thought I could ever handle. I just said to my mom the other night, in a way im...almost, yikes...glad im not still pregnant because all this stress on the LO would have not been good. AT ALL.

I made a facebook group called Paul Shelley Updates so if anyone is interested in his current conditions, fundraisers, etc, feel free to join that for current info.

I made myself do something fun today...I needed it. We went and put a deposit down on a location for the wedding reception and met with a VERY awesome and well known DJ for our neck of the woods who is going to let us pay over time and give us plenty of time to make the deposit but is still holding our date. He is aware of the situation and even offered to DJ any benefits as a charitable thing...so things are a bit happier but I am dreading the next few days. I really hope he keeps his leg...and I hope we get all the information for his transfer squared away. Keep prayin ladies...and again....THANK YOU.

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