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Well that was depressing...

babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Just filled out the MASSIVELY long new patient form for tomorrows RE apt.

Family Medical History Issues - NOPE

Personal Medical History Issues - NOPE

Problems Getting Pregnant - NOPE

Maybe the problem is your plumbing - NOPE

Or a problem with DH's boys - NOPE

Maybe you have genetic issues - NOPE

Just can't effing STAY pregnant.

I'm really holding out very little hope that they'll figure out what the hell is wrong with us. I know this isn't the right attitude and I know I'm no doctor and there are plenty of other issues not yet explored... but I just feel like we're simply a "what the hell did you do to piss of Miss Kharma this bad??" couple.

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  • rjl07rjl07
    I know exactly how you feel.  GL at your appt tomorrow.  I hope the RE has some answers for you.
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    That's about how mine was. I was certain I'd be an "unexplained" case. Now, I'm not sure which is worse - not knowing why, or knowing that the why is something that's not fixable.
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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest

    imageColindaP:
    That's about how mine was. I was certain I'd be an "unexplained" case. Now, I'm not sure which is worse - not knowing why, or knowing that the why is something that's not fixable.

    I know it's just a case of "the grass is always greener..." or whatever. But I just want to know what the hell is going on?!?! To either begin the closure of "ok, so this isn't going to happen for us" or to develop a plan moving forward to prevent more mc.

    I just feel like if I get preg. again - a 4th mc would just be inevitable...

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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    I'm so sorry.  Good luck tomorrow.
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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    I'm sorry honey (HUGS) GL tomorrow at the appt. 
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    Wishing you tons of luck tomorrow.
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  • schen0510schen0510
    Hoping this appointment gives you some answers.  ((Hugs))
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  • suntotosuntoto member
    SGFC is really good.  I have faith that they will be able to help you figure out what is going on. 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • maritzburggirlmaritzburggirl
    good luck tomorrow....I'll be thinking of you.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Good luck at your appt tomorrow.

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  • jumagirljumagirl
    Think of the questionnaire as low hanging fruit. You're just making your RE work for the pretty penny they're earning from your visit.  Just b/c it isn't obvious doesn't mean that there isn't an answer.  Wishing the very best for you and hoping you come out of tomorrow with a solid plan.  (((hugs)))
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