Babies: 9 - 12 Months

What was/is the biggest hurdle in your relationship after having a baby?

Re: What was/is the biggest hurdle in your relationship after having a baby?

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  • imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    same!!

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  • imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    Ditto!  And not allowing myself to wallow in the inevitable resentment that follows from feeling like I do all the work. 

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  • imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    Oooh, thats a good one! For me it has been dealing with a cranky DH. He has not adjusted well to having less time for himself, and being pulled different ways. He hates his commute, wants to spend more time with DD, but wants to spend more time making music too. Not getting enough sleep doesnt help. We'd be better off if he could find some balance that makes him happier.

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  • imageMrsPatterson:

    imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    Ditto!  And not allowing myself to wallow in the inevitable resentment that follows from feeling like I do all the work. 

    Ditto x 1,000

  • lack of sexy time.

    not because we cant find time, but because birth (or nursing?)  broke my sex drive :(  like, its not just low,  its not existant.

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  • imageTomkat8403:
    imageMrsPatterson:

    imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    Ditto!  And not allowing myself to wallow in the inevitable resentment that follows from feeling like I do all the work. 

    Ditto x 1,000

    Agree on both the responsibility and the wallowing!

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  • imageTomkat8403:
    imageMrsPatterson:

    imageBeanieWeanie:
    Sharing the responsibilities fairly.

    Ditto!  And not allowing myself to wallow in the inevitable resentment that follows from feeling like I do all the work. 

    Ditto x 1,000

    Agree on both the responsibility and the wallowing!

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  • imagegumiberg:

    lack of sexy time.

    not because we cant find time, but because birth (or nursing?)  broke my sex drive :(  like, its not just low,  its not existant.

    This!!!

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  • After having our third last August the most stressful thing for our relationship is just the amount of work, stress, and noise involved with having three kids, a dog, a house and both with full time jobs. It is stressfull all the time for both of us and we are both busy non stop. Its hard.
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