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mandaphilly
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I have a early unpopular opinion.
mandaphilly
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And if this goes to anybody here than I'm sorry. - And this is early because by the time Thursday comes I will forget it.
I think it is extremely grimey when pregnant women have sex with another dude when that is not the father of the baby. Whether it's her new boyfriend or not. I just don't know how people do it.
Sorry - I have a friend who was pregnant and broke up with her douche and then started a relationship with another guy and she told me they had sex and I just thought it was weird/gross. IMHO.
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Re: I have a early unpopular opinion.
Definitely true! Very gross.
P.S. your daughter is ADORABLE!
I have to say, the idea turns my stomach a little too....but I guess I would have to walk a mile in someone's shoes maybe if I were separated from my husband shortly after getting pregnant and started a serious relationship later in the pregnancy with a super supportive, amazing man....9 months is a long time...who knows? I hate to judge.
Initial feeling
with some thought
who knows?
This.
And I am in this situation. STBXH left one week after conception, before I even knew. I am 33 weeks in and still can't imagine dating or sleeping with anyone else.
I think it is hard to judge a person's situation when you aren't them. I think having pregnant sex with a big belly is awkward, definitely, not that I have done it. I just can't imagine it. But what about when you're not showing? I felt the same when I was 2, 3, 4 months pregnant to now. Maybe a little bloated, but that was it.
Like someone else said, walk a mile in someone else's shoes who has done it and you might understand.
I think, so long as everyone is safe, they get to do what they want. The idea of it may be "grimy" but I'm not going to judge anyone.
Pretty sure there is at least one single mama on this board who is pg and in a relationship so I would be curious to get her take.
I understand the initial feeling and where you are coming from Amanda. However, I think every situation is different. I think if someone is in a relationship and they plan on being with that person, then it can be ok.
That being said, it's interesting you posted this because it reminds me of a DB story! Apparently before we got engaged (and were NOT "together" but still sleeping together when we saw eachother) DB went on a camping trip with a big group. Apparently one of them was a girl that he had a previously relationship with (when we were also on this "break"). They had ended the relationship because she found out she was pg with someone else' baby. Fast forward to this camping trip where she is HUGELY pregnant-about 7-8 months along. Guess who BAGGED the pregnant lady??? Yup: DOUCHEBAG. She's one klassy girl, and he's one klassy guy.
I only heard about this story recently but found it repulsing nonetheless. And the girl is so cracked out now that I heard the father has full custody, and as far as I remember, he's a pretty big Douche himself.
Cheers to being done with low lifes!
It's not like you can get more pregnant
That being said I would be more afraid of STD's and passing that to my unborn child.
For the record I only had sex while pregnant w/ the father of the children. And I do get all judgy about getting into a relationship while being single and pregnant with another man's child.
I think J'Lo made a movie about it
I don't even want to go to the GROCERY STORE right now, how the helllll did she go camping that pregnant?
Not only did she go camping, but managed to be a seductress as well....actually, maybe it was DB that did the seducing. Oh well, either way she's a special kind of gal! She's probably got skilz we never knew existed