Oooh, thats a good one! For me it has been dealing with a cranky DH. He has not adjusted well to having less time for himself, and being pulled different ways. He hates his commute, wants to spend more time with DD, but wants to spend more time making music too. Not getting enough sleep doesnt help. We'd be better off if he could find some balance that makes him happier.
After having our third last August the most stressful thing for our relationship is just the amount of work, stress, and noise involved with having three kids, a dog, a house and both with full time jobs. It is stressfull all the time for both of us and we are both busy non stop. Its hard.
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same!!
Ditto! And not allowing myself to wallow in the inevitable resentment that follows from feeling like I do all the work.
Oooh, thats a good one! For me it has been dealing with a cranky DH. He has not adjusted well to having less time for himself, and being pulled different ways. He hates his commute, wants to spend more time with DD, but wants to spend more time making music too. Not getting enough sleep doesnt help. We'd be better off if he could find some balance that makes him happier.
Ditto x 1,000
lack of sexy time.
not because we cant find time, but because birth (or nursing?) broke my sex drive
like, its not just low, its not existant.
Agree on both the responsibility and the wallowing!
Agree on both the responsibility and the wallowing!
This!!!