Pregnant after a Loss

Can I ask for T & P please....

I have my doppler appt tomorrow morning.  I am really trying to be positive and have faith, but I am so scared.

I have had to take so much medicine for these headaches, they even gave me vicodin it has gotten so bad!  I am so scared I ruined everything!!!!  I just want to cry nonstop.  I am trying to be good ... its been really hard on my husband with my constant worrying.  Last week they had a hard time finding the HB and said 164, 157....did that mean it was going down and just on a downward spiral to no HB???

A good friend lost her baby at 15 weeks and I keep feeling its going to be the same thing.

Sorry for the long post. If you have some time, I could really use some prayers...its the only thing getting me through.  I really want this baby!

5th time is a charm right?? haha Smile  Thanks ladies!  Feeling very grateful to be part of this group again.

Re: Can I ask for T & P please....

  • I'll be thinking of you and looking forward to hearing that everything went well.
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  • T&P for a good appt!!!!!!!
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  • ::hugs:: Thoughts and prayers for a great appointment!
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  • Good luck tomorrow, you're in my thoughts.

    You and me, lady. These are our Five Time Miracles.

  • Definitely thinking of you tomorrow.  I'm not quite sure how far along you are or your overall size (fluffy or not), but for me (a little fluffy), the midwife couldn't hear the hb on doppler until I was 14 weeks along.  I was disappointed when I went in at 11 weeks, and they couldn't find it.

    Here's to hearing a great hb, and getting a great report back tomorrow!!

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    Definitely thinking of you tomorrow.  I'm not quite sure how far along you are or your overall size (fluffy or not), but for me (a little fluffy), the midwife couldn't hear the hb on doppler until I was 14 weeks along.  I was disappointed when I went in at 11 weeks, and they couldn't find it.

    Here's to hearing a great hb, and getting a great report back tomorrow!!

     

    I'm 15 weeks.  They heard it loud and clear, and quick the week before.  I am a bit fluffy though....I like that description!

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    Good luck tomorrow, you're in my thoughts.

    You and me, lady. These are our Five Time Miracles.

     

    You are right!!!  This is our turn :)

    BTW, is Scout really your dog??  If so, that is the cutest darn pic I've ever seen!!

  • Big hugs to you.  I'm sure your appt. will be great tomorrow!  I know it's easier said than done, but try not to stress.  I get migraines, and they are definitely much worse when I am stressed out.

    I've had four prior losses, and I am scared at each appt. too.  Stay positive--5th time is definitely the charm!  Big Smile

  • Sending you lots of T&Ps.  As for the heart rate - don't worry about it.  I think those dopplers are all over the place with the rate.  As long as they hear it and it's in the normal range, it's nothing to worry about.

    (((hugs)))

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  • FWIW I'm not fluffy and at my 16 week appointment it took them a little while to track down LO and find the heartbeat. He was jumping around and they'd think they caught it and it then it was gone. So scary! Sending T&Ps your way.

    PS: The fifth time has been the charm for me.  

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  • Sending you tons of thoughts and prayers...hang in there. 
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  • Thinking of you and praying that all is well.  Can't wait to hear your good news update!!!
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  • of course, prayers are sent your way!!  and lots of good positive thinking vibes!
    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
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    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
  • I hope and pray you hear a precious HB tomorrow!


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  • T & P for a good appointment. FWIW- my LO's heart rate has gone down from appointment to appointment but always stays in a good range. The baby could also be moving around- or not- which has an affect on the heart rate. 
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  • My thoughts are with you.  Can't wait to hear good news!  And, I think it's totally normal for the heartrate to go all over the place  - my baby's does.  GL!
  • (((hugs))) many thoughts and prayers for you. I hope everything goes well.
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  • You've got my T&Ps.  Hope you can try and relax a bit before then.  Keep us posted.
  • My thoughts are with you!!
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