TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Soooo quiet in this house

Its only day #2 and I am not so sure about this unemployed thing.  I haven't been alone in so long I am not sure what to do with myself.  I am trying to stay productive.  I guess my next step is to deep clean room-by-room and shampoo the couches.  But then what?  Maybe I should learn to cook?  Ugh.

::::runs to careerbuilder to keep looking for jobs:::::

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Re: Soooo quiet in this house

  • I understand.  I'm on week #3 of being unemployed.  It is so quiet and I'm not quite sure what I should be doing. 
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    I have been unemployed for 4 months and I have gotten so much done .....another good website for jobs is Indeed.com I really like that one..Good luck:)
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  • Find a hobby before you go completely insane. For real.

    You can only job search for so many hours in the day, so you need that *something* that keeps you occupied during the rest of the time. The quiet can be really deafening!

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

  • Stay here with us Wink

    I hope you find a new job soon!

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Find a hobby before you go completely insane. For real.

    You can only job search for so many hours in the day, so you need that *something* that keeps you occupied during the rest of the time. The quiet can be really deafening!

    I used to be a quliter!  I loved it.  Maybe I will finish that quilt I have been working on for 4 years.  The only bad thing about quilting is it isn't cheap!  Material is crazy expensive around here. 

    I do have that pesky thesis I need to finish..... but that isn't as fun!!!!  ;)

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  • Want some yarn? It's not quilting, but it'll keep your hands busy and I've got a crap tonne of it sitting around here that I've spun and needs to go to good homes!

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

  • imageEntropicEpona:
    Want some yarn? It's not quilting, but it'll keep your hands busy and I've got a crap tonne of it sitting around here that I've spun and needs to go to good homes!

    Oh, that sounds like fun!  My grandmother used to crochet and knit, but I have no clue how to do it.  I guess I could learn on youtube???  I learned how to give myself Lupron shots on youtube - how scarey is that? :)

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  • imageEntropicEpona:
    Want some yarn? It's not quilting, but it'll keep your hands busy and I've got a crap tonne of it sitting around here that I've spun and needs to go to good homes!

    Oh - btw, I lived in Everett for several years.  I love the Puget Sound area and still have lots of friends up there.  How do you like living in Bothell?

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  • Enjoy it for the time being! 
  • imageKelinandKevin:

    imageEntropicEpona:
    Want some yarn? It's not quilting, but it'll keep your hands busy and I've got a crap tonne of it sitting around here that I've spun and needs to go to good homes!

    Oh - btw, I lived in Everett for several years.  I love the Puget Sound area and still have lots of friends up there.  How do you like living in Bothell?

    I really enjoy it. Both Sean and I are Canadian, so this feels much more like home than those few years we lived in Texas. My brother lives in Vancouver, BC, so we're running back and forth a lot. I'd like it a lot more if houses didn't cost so damn much, but whatever.

    About the knitting or crocheting, I taught myself to knit with a book called "Stitch 'n ***". She also has one for crochet called "The Happy Hooker". And there are TONS of videos on YouTube. Just think of all the Christmas presents you can get done!

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

  • BAH! I say use the extra time to bump!
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  • I would be enjoying the quiet.  I know that it wouldn't last long, but right now I would so enjoy some quiet!!!
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  • imageKelinandKevin:

    imageEntropicEpona:
    Want some yarn? It's not quilting, but it'll keep your hands busy and I've got a crap tonne of it sitting around here that I've spun and needs to go to good homes!

    Oh, that sounds like fun!  My grandmother used to crochet and knit, but I have no clue how to do it.  I guess I could learn on youtube???  I learned how to give myself Lupron shots on youtube - how scarey is that? :)

    I learn how to do EVERYTHING on youtube!!!  I even installed a garbage disposal system by watching a youtube video!  Maybe you can make some youtube videos.

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    I learn how to do EVERYTHING on youtube!!!  I even installed a garbage disposal system by watching a youtube video!  Maybe you can make some youtube videos.

    Thats funny!  I wonder what I'd make videos about?  I know a little about a lot of things, but I am no authority on any one thing (if that makes sense).  I guess I am going to tackle the mound of clothes in the bedroom (I washed 9 loads yesterday and today) and then go mow my grandma's lawn.  Then I guess I could do homework this evening, although that's like pulling molars at this point. 

    Maybe I'll get all my house stuff done today and plan an all day bump fest for tomorrow!  Suuuuweeetttt!!!!

     

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  • When I came back from the Peace Corps I had a good 6 months of readjustment and unemployment.  What helped was to schedule time to do all the job hunt stuff (wanted ads, online stuff like idealist.org and craigslist) and time to do the applications.  Then I volunteered as that helped me get out of the house and socialize.  I still volunteer but it is mainly with Archaeology.  But I recommend doing volunteer work in things you like or enjoy to make it more interesting and fun for you.  I am sorry that you are going through this at such a crappy time to be looking for jobs...  I hope the RIGHT thing comes your way quickly!
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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