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I'm going to whine for a moment....

HappyMommy28HappyMommy28 member
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I hate that DH is having to be gone for so long!  I hate that his stupid superviser made him do two back to back TDY's and it SUCKS! I hate that we have so much stuff to do before LO arrives and he can't do it because he will be gone for xx amount of days!  I want  him home.  I want him home with me so I'm not worrying about him and the baby at the same time.  I want him home with me so when I need a shoulder to lean on I have his. I don't wan to be alone and I wish he didn't have to go.  This is our first pregnancy and I'm scared out of my mind!   I want HIM to be here with me for all the ups and downs.  I just got used to him being home, now he's leaving again and I'm going to worry about the next time he comes home.  AAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!  *stomping feet* * laying on ground throwing 2 yr old tantrum*

Ok, I feel better.  Flame away if you must.  I just wanted to vent for a moment to people who understood.  I usually don't get this upset when DH heads out but I must be super hormonal or something.  

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  • shaykristashaykrista
     I understand.  But relax take a deep breath, you are only 16 weeks and you have lots of time to get everything done.  But it always makes it hard when you want to do something but can't. 
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  • ames71ames71 member
    No flames hon. I have days like that too. Hang in there!
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  • Roundrockgal79Roundrockgal79

    No flame from here either!

     My DH will deploy again when four months after baby is born and lately I'm TERRIFIED to do it all alone when he's gone and I freak out every time I think about it. I know I'll be strong and make it all work and it will all be fine but still....it sucks.

    Hang in there! Left Hug

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  • ARMYmarriedNAVYARMYmarriedNAVY

    we all have crappy moments, just try to keep it from becoming the norm.

    Good luck!!! :-)

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  • emilysbeaulieuemilysbeaulieu

    I'm right there with you.  DH is leaving in about a month and basing his leave around the due date so hopefully he can be home for the birth.  It is the first baby for both of us and I am so scared to be living by myself pregnant and then with a newborn. 

    However if single mothers do it everyday then we can do it for a little while.  DH is just doing his job and trying to take care of his family and it will be hard on him too.  There is always Skype when I miss him too much.

     Good luck and dont worry, you will be amazing!

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  • ARMYmarriedNAVYARMYmarriedNAVY
    Okay Rose... so you posted this 2 days ago... feeling better yet? You'd better pull out of it or I'll throw BGP's at you!!!
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  • CCCSLP1CCCSLP1
    No flames from me either.  In fact, I feel the same way at least once per day.  DH is set to deploy close to my due date and this our first baby.  It is going to be a rough holiday season and first year of baby's life without him.  I just try not to think about it too much, and I know "this too shall pass.  Hope your spirits are up soon. 
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  • Gilly1126Gilly1126

    imageCCCSLP1:
    No flames from me either.  In fact, I feel the same way at least once per day.  DH is set to deploy close to my due date and this our first baby.  It is going to be a rough holiday season and first year of baby's life without him.  I just try not to think about it too much, and I know "this too shall pass.  Hope your spirits are up soon. 

     

    This pretty much exactly. DH is technically set to deploy 3 days BEFORE my due date, so we are trying to some finangling and after our next appt starting to attempt natural induction methods. But yes, I want to have a big tempertantrum, complete with kicking and screaming. Haven't yet, but we still have time lol. And to the one throwing out BGP.. keep one in stock for me.. I might need to either have it thrown at me or just hit with it.

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  • ARMYmarriedNAVYARMYmarriedNAVY
    imageGilly1126:

    imageCCCSLP1:
    No flames from me either.  In fact, I feel the same way at least once per day.  DH is set to deploy close to my due date and this our first baby.  It is going to be a rough holiday season and first year of baby's life without him.  I just try not to think about it too much, and I know "this too shall pass.  Hope your spirits are up soon. 

     

    This pretty much exactly. DH is technically set to deploy 3 days BEFORE my due date, so we are trying to some finangling and after our next appt starting to attempt natural induction methods. But yes, I want to have a big tempertantrum, complete with kicking and screaming. Haven't yet, but we still have time lol. And to the one throwing out BGP.. keep one in stock for me.. I might need to either have it thrown at me or just hit with it.

    LOL.. Just call my name and I'll be there with some BGP's for ya.

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