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NPGR: Are you judgemental?

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I didn't think I used to be but in the last few years, i'm becoming more and more...why can't I just live and let live?? 

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Re: NPGR: Are you judgemental?

  • SonadoraSonadora member
    Very much so. I get it from my mother. She's the ultimate in people watching cattiness.
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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member
    I used to be but not I make a huge effort not to be.  I just disregard people that I would usually judge.  (I guess I'm still a tad judgemental to be able to single out the people I'm going to disregard.)
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  • KelanneKelanne
    I think I am.  I'm also not very forgiving . . . sometimes I think it comes with age . . .
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  • Addicted2thenotAddicted2thenot member
    In general I am not judgmental, quite the opposite, I am understanding to a fault. I can always imagine myself in every persons shoes & rationalize why they would act that way. This drives DH crazy, but I am who I am 
    I should be a therapist :O)

    the only thing that really gets to me is bad/neglectful parenting. 
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  • jdomanjdoman
    I try so hard not to be, but yes, I am.
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  • MrsDCruzMrsDCruz member

    imagejdoman:
    I try so hard not to be, but yes, I am.

    This.

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  • cintimcintim
    I went through a period that I was super judgemental. Once I realized it, though, I've been trying to be more laid back. I must admit, the laid back approach is a lot calmer and causes much less drama!
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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    Yes I think I am. I just consider myself to have very strict morals and values and I find it hard sometimes to accept those that don't have those same ones.
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  • lraymeremtplraymeremtp
    imageAddicted2Thenot:
    In general I am not judgmental, quite the opposite, I am understanding to a fault. I can always imagine myself in every persons shoes & rationalize why they would act that way. This drives DH crazy, but I am who I am 
    I should be a therapist :O)

    the only thing that really gets to me is bad/neglectful parenting. 

    This whole thing, exactly. I have been walked all over for my non-judgemental behavior, and yet I still allow it to happen because I always put myself in other's shoes. How would I feel if I were them? What would I be doing because of their circumstances? Ditto too on the bad parenting, BIGGEST pet peeve, and the one thing to set me off big time...

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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    Yes, I am very judgemental.
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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member

    imageKelanne:
    sometimes I think it comes with age . . .

    I have to agree with this. 

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  • vlewis515vlewis515 member
    I'm judging everyone now! J/k! But yes I'm very judgemental, I blame my upbringing, dad is a police sergeant, mom is a dispatcher, grandad is retired battalion chief (fire). More so from my Dad, I tend to make quick, final decisions and that can lead to judginess! Just ask my sister and BIL!
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  • KelzinBostonKelzinBoston
    I think I used to be much worse in my late teens/early 20's...but with some life experience I've learned that situations are different for other people and that I can't always judge when I'm not in their shoes.  It doesn't mean there aren't times I judge...I'm totally guilty of it, but I keep it to myself a bit better than I once did.
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  • bkjcweddingbkjcwedding

    Yes, but 99% of the time I keep it to myself.  I am an extreme perfectionist (and pretty much OCD) and I know that my standards are by no means normal. I am quick to judge, but slow to comment. 

    I try to go by the "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" philosophy. But I'm also a bit of a b!tch so it doesnt always work out. 

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  • sinisterkat01sinisterkat01

    Yes, I think I am.  I am not judgemental of some things, but very judgemental of others.  I'm not one to judge the single mom, for example, or the people that are down on their luck.  But I am very judgemental of people that take no responsibility for their actions, hurt other people, etc.  And I'm not sure that's a bad thing.

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    Yes.  I always have been that way.  I am also extremely self-critical.  Like, way beyond the normal range.  Sigh. 
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