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TTC After a Loss
Sunflower730
member
Bump Suck.. I'm sorry post.
Sunflower730
member
I really am sorry the post got out of hand and yes i am having a bad day and took it out ont he wrong person. I did actually send a PM to the girl and say that I was sorry for being mean to her. This was a few hours ago.
Second, We will just have to agree that Suntoto and I will not get along. I will stay out of her posts if she stays out of mine. Basiclly if I have nothign nice to say I will not say it.
I'm really confused about roxyttandm comment though.
I'm not sure who you think you are, sunflower... You don't get to come to this board and start throwing your weight around like you own the place... Cause you don't! You have a real reputation for being a hard nosed b!tch around here and people are not only talking about it... but, they are starting to despise you. It is pretty obvious to everyone that you have some real anger issues... this is certainly not the place to make your personal issues everyone else's. You need to cap your additude or beat it. This is not your personal boxing match to do what you want to whom you want.
Ship up, Sunflower, or ship out...
Yes like I said I was having a bad day, but I do not remember EVER throwing my weight around like I owned the place or having reputation for being a hard nosed b!tch. I am very supportive to the girls on this board.
If there is another post where I was doing this plase bring it to my attention. Oh and I want to know where the post that roxyttandm created also.. Cause when I click on your name I see a DD post about "Sunflower is out of control"
As for the DD, I didn't DD anything. I really do not know where the "Guess What" post went but after posting it and thinking about it, the post was wrong. So I'm glad it's gone.
But if anything I am sorry. And I'll be taking a break fromthis board cause reading alot of the post really opened my eyes.
Thanks for supporting me when I needed it in the past. And I hope you all get your BFP and dreams of being parents.
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Re: Bump Suck.. I'm sorry post.
Everyone has their bad days. Maybe you just need a 'Time Out' breather.
OK first of all it wasn't the bump it was you under an AE and although I said I was taking a break I have been lurking and how dare you come and attack my friends!...I would have never been able to get through the last 5 months without them. They have always had great advice to anyone who asks and I think you making comments to make people feel uncomfortable and not want to come back was very uncalled for.
and as far as I am concerned Suntoto is one of the WISEST people on this board....
MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
I guess I missed all the drama! But from what I know of you on the GP board I have never had a problem with you Sunflower. I hope things settle down, you have enough going on in your life (as we all do) and I would hope that we can all come on here and get support from one another and get away from some of the sadness that surrounds us everyday.
If I don't catch you on here I will see you on our other board.
Whatever.
I have nothing against you personally, but I do have something against calling a noob pathetic which was your BEHAVIOR.
Also, did you really have to go all OSB on me and 1-star my post? Seriously? I haven't 1-starred you, but it looks like and sounds like you really want to be labeled the OSB and get 1-starred.
I'm sure the apologies were greatly appreciated.
Sounds like a break would be a good call right now for you... we all need to step away from things every now and then.
Good luck to you.
I have never OSB your posts I dont even know whatt he stars are for and ignore them. But whatever blame it on me if you feel good about it.
Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh. Are you aware of how passive aggressive this sounds?
1. I don't think that's a DD post.
2. Yes, we all have bad days. I'm sorry you're having one.
3. Some of the answers were blunt before yours, but they weren't personally attacking the OP. If we were mean to everyone that came on here, no one would ever be new here, and we all need the support.
Good luck with everything.
Yeah, right. It all suspiciously happened right after you DD.
Also, FWIW, I don't dislike you, sunflower. Seriously. But when you act like a jerk I will call it as I see it. That is no way to treat a noob.
Your apology is appreciated, as people have stated and bump breaks can be really healthy as TTCAL both with and without IF treatments are highly emotional. I wish you the best on your journey.
whether it's the bump, an ae or whatever, it's over with. apologies have been made. and it's the internet. and it's a board of women no less. there are bound to be emotions, arguments and stupid comments made. so let's just be done with this.
Word.
Thebump does not suck... Thebump is a needed and valued support system to all of us. Blaming the bump isn't going to make this situation any better.
Look, I know what it is like to be angry. We all have a right to be angry for the deck of cards that we have been handed... what we don't have a right to do is project our anger on one another. That is where I put my foot down. It is unexceptable.
I do wish you all the best of luck. Perhaps a bump break is well needed. I don't have anything against you personally, I just don't appreciate some of "your" behaviors in the past and present. On top of which, pushing the blame elsewhere isn't a solution. Taking responsibility is the adult thing to do. We all have bad days, sometimes bad weeks - but, we all must be accountable for our actions as well. It really is one of the few things we have complete control over.
Good luck...
Peace.
The OSB has been around forever and probably gets excited when people get upset about it.
Seriously of all the stupid things the Bump could have put on here they put that star thing. lol
The real OSB is a bunch of random people on here, not just 1 person, and it is how people anonymously voice their passive aggressive stances. I do agree that the 1-star thing is lame and they should take it down.
Hmm, well it is so funny that mustangraven spelled congratulations as congradulations
And here is a post of sunflower730 that spells it the same way. Wow, coincidence, I think not
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/27548997.aspx
Don't forget that they are both hanging in New Hampshire either
Yeah, b/c the key to a good lie is to keep a bunch of truth in it. Change 1 thing (like loss lengths) and keep the rest of the info.
We all have times where we disagree and bitterness takes over. Please keep posting b/c this is a wonderful board.
BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12