When did you start showing?
We are hoping to wait until the end of first tri to tell everyone again, but my best friend (the only person who knows now) said I'll be lucky if it's not obvious by then . . . She couldn't hide #2 past 11 weeks!
ds #1 | our perfect miracle born 39w1d | 12.9.2009
loss #1 | natural m/c 7/2010 (~8w)
loss #2 | chemical pregnancy 6/2011 (4w4d)
loss #3 | chemical pregnancy 7/2011 (4w3d)
loss #4 | natural m/c 11/2011 (10w1d)
RPL Testing 12/2011. Results 100% normal.
ds #2 | our 2nd perfect miracle born 36w3d | 12.31.2012
Re: If this is your 2nd pregnancy - ?
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
This is my 4th pregnancy, 3rd to get this far and I had trouble hiding it past about 12 weeks - I had to wear baggy clothes and just stayed at my desk at work...I didn't want them to know any earlier than I had to tell. I was really uncomfortable though - my pants were tight. I look like I"m at least 6 months pg already now and I have not gained any actual weight - I'm worried once my appetite kicks back in that I'll be big as a house in no time. If anyone asks then you can decide if you want to say something but if you don't want to tell then don't - people may wonder but it would be pretty bold of them to ask.
"A baby will make love stronger, days shorter, nights longer, bankroll smaller, home happier, clothes shabbier, the past forgotten, and the future worth living for"