Seriously pissed off, this is unacceptable. nttgpr and long.

Ya Never Know · June 2010

My best friend has two dogs, who she says are her DH's dogs, she never wanted them, and therefore, she wants nothing to do with them. So when they moved to their new house, she wouldn't let the dogs in the house. They live in the garage.. and they let them out to run around the property. For the mostpart this is okay, but even in -30(celcius), they never let them in the house.

Since she had the baby, she's been a real biitch. This is what was just posted on her FB:

_____ _____ will stop talking to (her DH's name) if he brings that stupid dog home from the vet

My comment was: ???

Hers:

____ _____ stupid dog + porcupine x 4 = dead dog

I'm so fvcking pissed off at her. It's their fault that the dog got attacked, they let him out in the middle of the night because they don't want to deal with his barking... wtf did they think was going to happen? The dog's been attacked by porcupines on 3 other occasions because she let them out in the middle of the night.

I'm seriously pissed. She's even said before that she doesn't care if they run off even, then she doesn't have to deal with them. I asked her why, if she felt that way, didn't she just give them to good homes, because what she was doing was abusing them... and she said because her DH feels guilty giving them away.

Ummm... so you feel "guilty" giving them away... but you don't feel guilty locking them in a fvcking garage for most of the day, then letting them out in the middle of the night hoping that they'll run off and go die somewhere so that you don't have to be responsible for them?????

W H A T T H E F V C K ? ? ?

Dana_Loves_J · June 2010

That's awful Sad

kerrbear72 · June 2010

Why does her DH not put his foot down? She must be one tough.. cookie.

LadyXaverian · June 2010

That is completely messed up. I don't usually suggest giving away your dog, but in this case, it is probably the best thing. If the dog lives, encourage (beg!) her and her husband to re-consider.

ETA: .. or maybe the dogs could mysteriously go missing in the middle of the night from their backyard? (I know, that's terrible, but seriously, wtf.)

Ya Never Know · June 2010

kerrbear72:
Why does her DH not put his foot down? She must be one tough.. cookie.

Because he wants them, she doesn't. So she let's them out and hopes they go kill themselves (and success on her part, she manage to kill one today), and he's too lazy to be the one to take care of them, but he doesn't want to give them up.

She would have gladly given them away to another family, but he wouldn't let her. He's just as stupid as she is.

Lea81 · June 2010

Wow, That is REALLY aggravating! That is so sad to hear how people abuse their animals by neglect.

Ya Never Know · June 2010

SarahL77:
That is completely messed up. I don't usually suggest giving away your dog, but in this case, it is probably the best thing. If the dog lives, encourage (beg!) her and her husband to re-consider.

The dog died. She had it put down. They've got one dog left.

mellymel12 · June 2010

not.cool.

poor doggie

lovelainie · June 2010

That's horrible.

DH has had his Kitty for much longer than he's had me, and while I'm not a huge fan of her (and am allergic to her), she's still my furbaby, and I'd never dream of depriving DH of that.

She sounds like she could use a good throat-punch.

LifesPeachy · June 2010

That is so sad Sad

The poor doggy..

JennyBee0916 · June 2010

Aww....this makes me sad What a snatch!! I can't believe she would say something like that!! I hate when people dont treat animals like part of their family! My cats are like my children!

Ya Never Know · June 2010

Lea81:
Wow, That is REALLY aggravating! That is so sad to hear how people abuse their animals by neglect.

Even if I wasn't an animal person, I would never abuse an animal like that. I believe that you have to be selfless enough to know when you're not good for something. If I wasn't able to care for my dog, or my cats, I would give them away, because that's the humane thing to do. It might be hard, but it would be the right thing to do so that animal can have a happy life.

LadyXaverian · June 2010

Ya Never Know:
SarahL77:

That is completely messed up. I don't usually suggest giving away your dog, but in this case, it is probably the best thing. If the dog lives, encourage (beg!) her and her husband to re-consider.

The dog died. She had it put down. They've got one dog left.

That breaks my heart. She is a seriously cold hearted person. Then the other dog needs to be given away/go missing from their yard in the middle of the night. That is fvcked up.

LadieBumbles · June 2010

I don't understand how people can be so heartless. Poor pups!

RumbleLina · June 2010

OH wow...this makes my heart break

Her husband is being selfish because he has got to see how his wife treats the dogs and yet he still keeps them around.

She doesn't have a very good heart, no compassion....those people scare the crap out of me. Those are the people who come at you in the middle of the night with a knife when you make them mad!! Surprise

kerrbear72 · June 2010

Ya Never Know:
kerrbear72:
Why does her DH not put his foot down? She must be one tough.. cookie.
Because he wants them, she doesn't. So she let's them out and hopes they go kill themselves (and success on her part, she manage to kill one today), and he's too lazy to be the one to take care of them, but he doesn't want to give them up.
She would have gladly given them away to another family, but he wouldn't let her. He's just as stupid as she is.

Absolutely. If he really cared about his dogs he'd give them away.

LadyXaverian · June 2010

It just occurred to me that you referred to her as your 'best friend'.. Indifferent

Seriously, I couldn't be friends with someone who is ok with and gets a kick out of the fact that her husband's dog was killed by a porcupine.

ConfuzzledTrish · June 2010

SarahL77:
It just occurred to me that you referred to her as your 'best friend'..

Seriously, I couldn't be friends with someone who is ok with and gets a kick out of the fact that her husband's dog was killed by a porcupine.

I was thinking the same thing. I tend not to be friends with people who don't have hearts.

Lea81 · June 2010

Ya Never Know:

Lea81:
Wow, That is REALLY aggravating! That is so sad to hear how people abuse their animals by neglect.

Even if I wasn't an animal person, I would never abuse an animal like that. I believe that you have to be selfless enough to know when you're not good for something. If I wasn't able to care for my dog, or my cats, I would give them away, because that's the humane thing to do. It might be hard, but it would be the right thing to do so that animal can have a happy life.

I totally agree. There are plenty of people out there who would LOVE to take in/save an animal & give them a good home. It really breaks my heart to hear things like this.

emmypants · June 2010

Wow. I feel bad for her H & the poor dog

RayRay007 · June 2010

That's pretty disgusting.

Lea81 · June 2010

SarahL77:

It just occurred to me that you referred to her as your 'best friend'..

Seriously, I couldn't be friends with someone who is ok with and gets a kick out of the fact that her husband's dog was killed by a porcupine.

Couldn't agree more!!

AmberZ2be · June 2010

I'm sorry, but your best friend sounds like a total biitch. For real.

I feel extremely sorry for those dogs.

Ya Never Know · June 2010

SarahL77:
It just occurred to me that you referred to her as your 'best friend'..

Seriously, I couldn't be friends with someone who is ok with and gets a kick out of the fact that her husband's dog was killed by a porcupine.

Yeah, force of habit, we used to be best friends, I don't really think I can refer to her as that anymore, and that's not just for this incident alone. There have been so many things with her lately that in all honestly I don't even enjoy hanging out with her in the little time that I do, and after today, I'm so sickened by this, and I know DH will be sickened by it too when I tell him, that neither one of us will want to hang out with them anymore. (We've been pretty pissed off with her and her DH lately, because they've just been really stupid about a lot of things).

Ya Never Know · June 2010

emmypants:
Wow. I feel bad for her H & the poor dog

Sorry, I probably wrote it out wrong in my post because I was angry typing, but there's no reason to feel sorry for her H, he's the reason that she wasn't allowed to give them to loving homes. She didn't want the dogs, she told him that, but HE wouldn't let her give them away... yet he won't take care of them either.

Hollanjz · June 2010

This made me sick. Just sick. I swear, there's a special place in Hell for people like her.

may2010wedding · June 2010

Sometimes I wonder what people think, ugh. You are nicer that I would have been.

barcelonagirl · June 2010

did you tell her she was acting like an ***?

cozylittlecave · June 2010

ugh!!!! I just wanted to add myself to the list of people who are disgusted by this. It's an owner's responsibility to care for their pet. If you can't/won't... you don't deserve a pet. One of them should put their foot down- either you have the dogs & you take proper care of them or you give them to someone who wants them!!!

lstewa00 · June 2010

I can't even imagine not caring if a dog runs away, starves, gets hit by a car, dies.... I can't even imagine. My dog sleeps in bed with us! Okay, I know that is a little drastic, but he is small and he is our baby! I would never want anything but the best for him!

StephK · June 2010

Ya Never Know:
SarahL77:
That is completely messed up. I don't usually suggest giving away your dog, but in this case, it is probably the best thing. If the dog lives, encourage (beg!) her and her husband to re-consider.

The dog died. She had it put down. They've got one dog left.

That is absolutely horrible and infuriating. And she was HAPPY about it?! She put a fvcking smiley face with it? That's disgusting. I'd be more than pissed. I could not be friends with someone that would do that to a family pet, regardless of how she felt about it.

I am so sorry your friend was so terrible and heartless to her DH's dogs. I hope the death of his dog opens his eyes that he can feel bad all he wants, but he is NOT doing the right thing for his dog. I hope the other dog is given away immediately to a person that will actually give a damn and give the dog a happy, safe home - inside the house.

jessjo04 · June 2010

Thats horrible, what an awful way to die. Poor dog

What a *** to be happy about that.

JosiePosy · June 2010

This is why couples should not get pets unless both people are on board with the idea. I feel so bad for those dogs. That's a friendship I wouldn't mind losing.

amdraza · June 2010

That makes me sick!

lyse2143 · June 2010

I would seriously turn them in for neglect. That is horseshiit. Or, find them information for a good rescue so they can research it.

alyssa44 · June 2010

I am a huge animal lover and would not be able to tolerate someone who thinks it is alright to harm or wish harm on an animal. I'd drop her as a friend and consider reporting them to a local animal abuse agency. I did that to a a neighbor of mine who I used to live near who thought it was alright to leave their dog outside 24/7 is 100 plus degree heat.

Mrs.Umm · June 2010

That is awful! Call your local animal shelter and humane society. In many places this is enough to charge animal cruelty and seize the dog. If not, there may be some ladies on the pets board who could help them 'run away' one night.

squeakerabudhbabi · June 2010

I HATE people like that!!!! It really pisses me off! Why get dogs (or any pet for that matter) if you don't want to be responsible and take care of them?! Argh! WTH?! Angry