Pregnant after IF
xp from 2nd tri
just wanted to share a weekend vent with you guys too...
Dx: MFI, DOR, 9 Fibroids and homozygous MTHFR
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Re: xp from 2nd tri
Ugh... MILs can really get under the skin sometimes. I swear.... I am sorry. You are doing the best you can for your little smudge. In the wise words of Kim- she can go FRO.
My MIL is completely incapable of identifying or accepting anything that is not her experience. I was ready to punch her yesterday. We were at her house for a little while for a BBQ and H's cousin and I were talking about the end of pregnancy and how it can be rough, etc. She kept saying to me .'You know, this is the easiest part, you should just enjoy it." Finally i said, perhaps for you it was as you 've said numerous times that you never felt better than when you were pregnant, but I on the other hand can barely eat, throw up all.the.time and when I am not, I walk around a nauseous mess. I worry constantly that my child is not getting enough nutients, I am severely anemic- contributing to the exhaustion. I do not sleep at all now, so there will be no change there- so for me, this is NOT the easiest part. Will it be hard when the baby is here?, hell yes... but at least I will not be sick. Will I be awake a lot and tired, yes, but at least I won't be sick. I simply cannot for the life of me understand why she can't grasp this.
Ugh... MILS.... Ugh!
It was kinda funny to watch DH try to get me away from her... I think he knew I was ready to blow!
Your MIL need to STFU. Seriously, the whole SCH thing / doctor's orders / risk to the baby thing is not that hard to understand.
I think your H needs to step in and have a talk with his mother.
This is her grandchild - WOW. She should be applauding you for doing everything you can to protect your baby.
This!!!
the bad thing is, I really think if she knew how upset she made me, she'd be devastated. I think she really is that dumb. I dont' know how she raised DH, who is one of the smartest people I ever met.
Isn't that terrible?
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