so ive alwasy had a very healthy sex drive but in the last yesr it has totally vanished...not very good when your trying to have a baby has anyone else had this problem or have any ideas on how to kick start my sex drive.
Yep. Mine wasn't great before, but since TTC it has gone way down. Umm so bad that I haven't had sex in over 40 days! Yikes! Have you tired: going away for a night or two, sexy clothes, drinking, wearing sexy underwear, sexy text messages? Those are a few of the things I have tried over the past year. Obviously from my 40 days without it hasn't worked for me. But I wish you the best of luck!
I think that is very normal when TTC for so long. I can totally relate and here are a few things that work for me:
-plan a night away
-plan a spontaneous date night.
-open a special bottle of wine...
-take a bath together. Etc
TTC #1 since 6/08, MFI dx'd 3/09
Varicocelectomy 6/09, Hydrocelectomy 10/09
IVF with ICSI in Jan/Feb 2010
ER 2/7, ET 2/12 - transferred 2 blasts
5 snowbabies
Beta #1 = 22 #2 = 19. Chemical Pregnancy
FET May 2010
ET 5/30 - transferred 3 embies = BFN
Fall/10 Went Gluten free + New RE and Clinic
IUI #1 + Clomid 50 mg (1 follie) on 1/18
IUI #2 + Clomid 100 mg (1 follie) on 2/15
IUI# 3 + Femara 7.5 mg (1 follie) on 3/14 = BFP!!!!
Beta #1 = 172 (15dpiui) Beta #2 =683!!!
Ultrasound at 7 wks: 1 perfect beating heart.
Re: sex drive