I've been so tired and feeling yucky and frankly, I'm afraid of bleeding. I really hope we don't turn into one of those couples that doesn't have sex the whole time I'm pregnant.
DX: Him: Super sperm Me: Diminished pituitary function due to tumor removed April 2008, MTHFR Hetero C677T & A1298C
IVF #1-4=BFN
IVF #5=BFP! U/S on 5/3 revealed TWINS!
I've been so tired and feeling yucky and frankly, I'm afraid of bleeding. I really hope we don't turn into one of those couples that doesn't have sex the whole time I'm pregnant.
LOL... we are THAt couple!
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I haven't had sex since December.... last time was when we managed to knock my SCH loose, and I've been on pelvic rest since then. It's been so long my DH has now stopped whining about it.
I haven't had sex since December.... last time was when we managed to knock my SCH loose, and I've been on pelvic rest since then. It's been so long my DH has now stopped whining about it.
LOL... mine, too! I think the poor guy just knows it is not going to happen any time soon and has resigned himself to it!
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I've been so tired and feeling yucky and frankly, I'm afraid of bleeding. I really hope we don't turn into one of those couples that doesn't have sex the whole time I'm pregnant.
LOL... we are THAt couple!
We had sex 1 or 2 times between cycles (i was so depressed then), then the no sex restriction of IVF (well, of the 2ww, the huge ovaries canceled out the rest of it for me), then being terrified of bleeding during 1st tri, and now the SCH and pelvic rest.
we're quickly turning into that couple. but honestly, i don't think either of us cares about it. we're close in other ways, and i'm so terrified of hurting the baby at this point, that i'll do whatever the doctor says.
Dx: MFI, DOR, 9 Fibroids and homozygous MTHFR
"Smudge's Story - How to Grow a Dandelion" will return soon! The Dandelion Archive
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I've been so tired and feeling yucky and frankly, I'm afraid of bleeding. I really hope we don't turn into one of those couples that doesn't have sex the whole time I'm pregnant.
LOL... we are THAt couple!
I can totally see DH and I being one of these couples too. We are waaaay too scared.
But I am glad you enjoyed yourself sarahp!
TTC since 8/07
DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/
TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/
12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/
6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/
7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/
9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/
11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/
1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/
4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!!
i have had several bouts of spotting so haven't had it. we did TRY once, but it'd been so long it was like the 1st time over again (ouch!) i also get so nervous when i start cramping after ( even just messing around)..poor dh
1 chemical and 1 loss at 9 weeks prior to DS IVF #1 1/10-transfered 2 blasts- DS born 10/2010
Trying for # 2 since 2012. 2 failed FETS 1 failed IUI.
I haven't had sex since December.... last time was when we managed to knock my SCH loose, and I've been on pelvic rest since then. It's been so long my DH has now stopped whining about it.
LOL... mine, too! I think the poor guy just knows it is not going to happen any time soon and has resigned himself to it!
lol i'm with you guys on this one....he used to ask all the time...i think he's finally given up but i do feel bad for him
1 chemical and 1 loss at 9 weeks prior to DS IVF #1 1/10-transfered 2 blasts- DS born 10/2010
Trying for # 2 since 2012. 2 failed FETS 1 failed IUI.
Just an example of how bad it is over here- today I was making lunch for DH to bring to work and (since I have an aversion to meat) I said "I haven't handled meat in a long time". DH says "I know, you haven't handled the meat in a long time"
Since our retrieval in January, we've had sex maybe three times. We wanted to wait until our beta, then when we found out it was a great number, we wanted to wait until our first u/s. But the day before the u/s, I had some very light spotting.
Because of that, the Dr. said wait 3-4 weeks before having sex. So after a month, we had sex. (Ouch!) but then a few days later I had some bleeding, went to the ER and was told I had a SCH, so no sex again for a month.
Since then we've had sex like twice.
Poor DH, I'm just not interested.
But, there are other ways I take care of him, and vice versa.
Re: Pregnancy Sex...
I've been so tired and feeling yucky and frankly, I'm afraid of bleeding. I really hope we don't turn into one of those couples that doesn't have sex the whole time I'm pregnant.
IVF #1-4=BFN IVF #5=BFP! U/S on 5/3 revealed TWINS!
We have not had sex in 8 .5 months!!!!!
LOL... we are THAt couple!
LOL... mine, too! I think the poor guy just knows it is not going to happen any time soon and has resigned himself to it!
We had sex 1 or 2 times between cycles (i was so depressed then), then the no sex restriction of IVF (well, of the 2ww, the huge ovaries canceled out the rest of it for me), then being terrified of bleeding during 1st tri, and now the SCH and pelvic rest.
we're quickly turning into that couple. but honestly, i don't think either of us cares about it. we're close in other ways, and i'm so terrified of hurting the baby at this point, that i'll do whatever the doctor says.
"Smudge's Story - How to Grow a Dandelion" will return soon!
The Dandelion Archive
"If dandelions were hard to grow, they would be most welcome on any lawn."
I can totally see DH and I being one of these couples too. We are waaaay too scared.
But I am glad you enjoyed yourself sarahp!
This is what I was told too. But I'm not scared...I can't wait!!!! I feel like DH and I are roommates who share a bed. I miss being close to him.
IVF #1 1/10-transfered 2 blasts- DS born 10/2010
March 2015- Chemical pg
1/25/16- BFP Beta1 12dpo = 17, Beta 2 14 dpo = 28.. resulted in one beautiful boy born 9/21/16
Now I'm a stay at home loving life and pursuing my love of photography!!!
lol i'm with you guys on this one....he used to ask all the time...i think he's finally given up but i do feel bad for him
IVF #1 1/10-transfered 2 blasts- DS born 10/2010
March 2015- Chemical pg
1/25/16- BFP Beta1 12dpo = 17, Beta 2 14 dpo = 28.. resulted in one beautiful boy born 9/21/16
Now I'm a stay at home loving life and pursuing my love of photography!!!
Just an example of how bad it is over here- today I was making lunch for DH to bring to work and (since I have an aversion to meat) I said "I haven't handled meat in a long time". DH says "I know, you haven't handled the meat in a long time"
Poor DH
Sex? I do not know what that means.
Since our retrieval in January, we've had sex maybe three times. We wanted to wait until our beta, then when we found out it was a great number, we wanted to wait until our first u/s. But the day before the u/s, I had some very light spotting.
Because of that, the Dr. said wait 3-4 weeks before having sex. So after a month, we had sex. (Ouch!) but then a few days later I had some bleeding, went to the ER and was told I had a SCH, so no sex again for a month.
Since then we've had sex like twice.
Poor DH, I'm just not interested.
But, there are other ways I take care of him, and vice versa.
6 IUIs,IVF #1 w/ICSI = BFP!
Betas, 332 & 856 = twins!
Our baby girl is here!