DH made me cry.

Krisx2 · May 2010

I'm working 12 hours today. Well I got the opportunity to leave 4 hours early because almost all of my patients have discharged. I called DH, all excited and peppy, to let him know that I could come home!! I thought this would be good news because I've been worked four 12 hour shifts since Friday morning.

He just said "Why are you coming home? Can't they send someone else home?" I explained that I wasn't needed and no one else wants to leave.

Then he concluded "Oh. Well do you have to come home?"

I burst into tears and hung up on him. Really? Where's the love and excitement that we might get to spend an hour of awake time together?

I'm really upset over this one. I feel SO rejected right now.

redhotchili83 · May 2010

Whoa.... not cool....

itkatydid@gmail.com · May 2010

that sucks. Is he worried about money? Why would he be upset that you are coming home early?!

MrsRebecca · May 2010

What a jerk! Even if you need the money, there is a better way he could have spoken.

katie.i.do · May 2010

WTF. what on earth did he mean by that??

Krisx2 · May 2010

itkatydid@gmail.com:
that sucks. Is he worried about money? Why would he be upset that you are coming home early?!

My income is basically ancillary. We are trying to save to buy a bigger house, so my income goes entirely towards paying off debt and into savings. All the bills are covered with his income.

So missing four hours when I've been paid time and a half all day isn't going to make an impact financially. I've already made more than a normal shift would.

Now he just called and said the baby is fussy and maybe it would be best if I did come home. Angry I can't believe that my normally wonderful DH is saying these things. I feel like I have raging pregnancy emotions all over again.

kattyleigh · May 2010

Krisx2:

itkatydid@gmail.com:
that sucks. Is he worried about money? Why would he be upset that you are coming home early?!

My income is basically ancillary. We are trying to save to buy a bigger house, so my income goes entirely towards paying off debt and into savings. All the bills are covered with his income.

So missing four hours when I've been paid time and a half all day isn't going to make an impact financially. I've already made more than a normal shift would.

Now he just called and said the baby is fussy and maybe it would be best if I did come home. I can't believe that my normally wonderful DH is saying these things. I feel like I have raging pregnancy emotions all over again.

Grrr. Stay at work just in spite...and use that extra $ on something new for YOU!

Krisx2 · May 2010

kattyleigh:
Krisx2:

itkatydid@gmail.com:
that sucks. Is he worried about money? Why would he be upset that you are coming home early?!

My income is basically ancillary. We are trying to save to buy a bigger house, so my income goes entirely towards paying off debt and into savings. All the bills are covered with his income.

So missing four hours when I've been paid time and a half all day isn't going to make an impact financially. I've already made more than a normal shift would.

Now he just called and said the baby is fussy and maybe it would be best if I did come home. I can't believe that my normally wonderful DH is saying these things. I feel like I have raging pregnancy emotions all over again.

Grrr. Stay at work just in spite...and use that extra $ on something new for YOU!

Oh I AM leaving work early...to go have a drink with the girls before I head home.

I need to let off some "you are not worthy" steam. Drinks

Thanks for letting me vent ladies.

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