out of curiosity, is this a regional thing? i had never heard of it, and neither had my best friend. i am sure my long island hosts will be expecting one as long island is always up on getting extra gifts for things, but i don't want my buffalo hosts to think i'm just being showy.
Re: shower host gift ideas
Whos hosting it? What does she like? How close are you two?
(that might give a better idea for us to throw a few suggestions out there)