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Talking about sexy time, what positions? (TMI??)

yeshuahamasshiahyeshuahamasshiah member
in 3rd Trimester

Maybe I need to pick up a kamasutra book or something ... but unless I am on top there is no way the big O is happening. However my bump does not really allow to me to ride the cowboy, KWIM?? so how do you do it? do you just finish alone? ... any ideas?

If you are still doing it, do you think you will stop at some point before delivering? 

 

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Re: Talking about sexy time, what positions? (TMI??)

  • toyah81toyah81 member
    From the back (doggy style) and reverse cowgirl are the two that are still comfortable for me. I don't like the spooning position too much. We will probably slow down how often we do it the last month, but probably not stop all together.
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  • AllieJeanAllieJean
    The only things that still work for us is either me on top, or standing and leaning over the bed. And nope we are going to keep doing it till LO comes out if it helps
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  • JG362009JG362009
    Spooning and doggy style -- my husband reaches around and touches me -- I O every time. 
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  • amy0105amy0105
    Last time we did it - weeks ago - I was on top - he took care of me first...
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  • Soon_2B_MrsMSoon_2B_MrsM
    I like to be on the bottom still! LOL I like to ride, and he likes it in the spooning position (I am not too crazy about that one though.
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  • Sunshinedarling999Sunshinedarling999
    We still do me on top and doggy but doggy sometimes hurts. Try to make up some moves thats what we are doing :D
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  • SummadazeSummadaze member
    I HATE spooning! We're pretty much stuck with me on the bathroom counter, but even that is uncomfortable now.. maybe I'll try reverse cowgirl, but I hate being on top anyways haha. But that's just my body insecurities... Doggy style is not for me either...
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  • PSUBean22PSUBean22 member
    we do it from behind while watching the thrust action. DH always takes care of my first.  Maybe we should try the spoon and being on top...good times for the weekend.  We need to be careful b/c with DD we had sexy time and I lost my MP and then did it again and I went into labor.
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  • brinbribrinbri member
    These days, DH always takes care of me during foreplay, I have been SUPER sensitive and it doesn't take long for me to go that way.  Then he usually goes on top (this is getting pretty hard) or we do it doggie style.  I have a hard time getting on top esp. when I am already tired and worn out!

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  • alexis0812alexis0812

    For some reason pre-preg I could only O when I was on top...since I have this stupid pubic bone pain that position is impossible!

    we've enlisted the help of toys and that helps me O when I'm laying down...DH usually takes care of me first and then we switch to doggie for him...it's not ideal but hey! at this point I'm glad we are able to enjoy sexy time at all!!

    GL, experiment and I'm sure you'll find what works best for you both!

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  • kmmccollumkmmccollum member
    We still do the him on top just about every time because my hips will give or lock in other positions but to get my part of it he usually starts taking care of me first then switches so we can go at about the same time or if I go first for some reason I can go again it's wonderful. we do not plan on stopping we have already talked about having a marathon the night before my scheduled c-section and the doctor said thats completely fine. As I have done this before and I know it's going to be a while before we can get busy again so We are planning an all night love fest for the night before the c-section also just in case we set off labor they will be ready for me at the hospital anyway!!!
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  • sruffleysruffley
    I am very much the O on top girl but have had to find other ways because it's not comfortable anymore. Doggy is good, we can either do that standing up or the standard way.  There is also another one called leg glider (sexinfo101.com) that is really good, and then there is spooning (not my fave).  You might also try some sitting positions with you on top but with your back to him.  You should check out the site to see if there is anything else you'd like to try.  And no I have no plans to stop, we are going to keep going until the baby is on her way.
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  • yeshuahamasshiahyeshuahamasshiah member
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    Sexy time? What is that? It has been a little while since we have had adult relations :)

    I would say to do it doggy and use a little help... Either finish yourself or use a toy for extra stimulation.

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  • Mommie2b882010Mommie2b882010
    I still love being on top its really the only way I can have and O but we also do it with me on the bathroom sink.. ;)  I also hate spooning!!
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  • 3plus1equals43plus1equals4 member

    The only way that works for me still is standing in the shower from behind... and yes he does have to reach around to help out.  My O's are getting less frequent though which sucks... we're doing it less often too...

     I don't plan on stopping before delivery, but with the way things are going, it may dwindle down to that point anyways.  I think DH is just starting to stress too much about everything.

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  • chelseadtchelseadt
    The only way I can get an O is when DH goes down on me before we do sexy time =/ And then when we do sexy time, the most comfy position is with me on top. I try to mix it up speed wise for DH because I am sure he is getting bored of the same position, over and over!
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