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if you've M/C naturally please come in (saifw)

hi cuties -

i started bleeding last Weds and have passed some stuff.  the last couple of days the bleeding has lessened but today ::warning tmi:: my vaj is killing me, it just hurts :(

did you experience this pain?

i have follow up u/s tomorrow and we'll see if i need d&c.

thanks so much.

 

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Re: if you've M/C naturally please come in (saifw)

  • I just wanted to say how sorry I am worms ((hugs))
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  • I was in a ton of pain with one & none at all besides cramping with the other.  It was so bad I actually took some of the major pain killers and ended up getting sick because I took those on an empty stomach.  It took me about 7-10 days for the bleeding to stop. The severe pain only lasted a day or two. Hang in there & if you need anything let me know.
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  • Well I took medication to start the m/c so I don't know if you want experience with this or not.  I passed a lot of tissue and then it started to slow down.  A few days later it started back up though which was hard because I thought it was over.  I had pain from the contracting, etc but it wasn't too bad so I would ask your RE if that was anything to be concerned about.  Big hugs.
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    My vag felt like it got beat up for a week or two after the bleeding started slowing down.  Hard to explain - it was just very sore and didn't feel normal at all.

    I am praying that this nightmare ends soon and you can start healing hon.

  • I've got no advice just ((HUGS))  
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    I'm so sorry you're going through this. I had terrible cramping pains, to the point that I was crying and my husband wanted to take me to the hospital (I refused to go). I got some prescription pain killers and those helped. This lasted for probably about 3 days. But, I wouldn't describe my vag as hurting, so it sounds like the pain you are having is different. I hope you don't need the surgery.

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  • wormie, I just wanted to stop by and give you a hug.  I am so so so so so sorry :(
  • just wanted to send *hugs*

    i'm so sorry you have to go through this...

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    My vag felt like it got beat up for a week or two after the bleeding started slowing down.  Hard to explain - it was just very sore and didn't feel normal at all.

    I am praying that this nightmare ends soon and you can start healing hon.

    This is my experience too. One thing I do remember is that I often had a constant "pinching" sensation in the vag area. I'm pretty sure it has to do with the cervix dilating and everything passing. My RE also said that it can feel that way when tissue is caught/trapped.

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  • I'm so sorry worms.  I bled really heavy and then it was light for a day or two and then I had another day or two of heavy bleeding before it started to lighten up again.  I didn't necessarily get pains down there but it definitely felt weird.  Perhaps a little tingly?  I hope you start to feel better soon and you won't need the D&C.  HUGS!
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    Well I took medication to start the m/c so I don't know if you want experience with this or not.  I passed a lot of tissue and then it started to slow down.  A few days later it started back up though which was hard because I thought it was over.  I had pain from the contracting, etc but it wasn't too bad so I would ask your RE if that was anything to be concerned about.  Big hugs.

    This exactly for my first m/c. Had a D&C for the second. Big hugs.

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  • I don't have anything useful to add... since my m/c refuses to happen on its own.  But I am so sorry you're dealing with this!!!  Really.   It just sucks!!!

    {HUGS}

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  • Mine was just a super heavy pd.  I had cramping, but nothing like you are experiencing.  I wasn't that far along though.  I am really sorry, worms.  
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  •  I don't think I felt that pain, just lots of cramps and lower back pain. 

    Did you cal lthe doctor? If it continues, I would. 

    ((((hugs)))

  • Big hugs to you, Worms. (I'd hug your vag too but well, maybe better not :-) Hope you're feeling better in time for the long weekend.

    Forty-something TTC since 12/2007 3 failed IVFs DE cycle #1: BFP then D&E at 12 weeks due to neural tube defect DE cycle #2: Chemical FET #1: BFN Lining issues, pursuing adoption
  • No personal experience with natural m/c but wanted to say again that I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Big hugs. 
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  • ((HUGS)) Wormsie

    My early m/c's  in August &  December super heavy bleeding, clots and cramps

    May 06: Natural PG= m/c, July 09: TI= m/c, November 09: TI=BFN, December 09: IUI= c/p
    IVF#1: start stims 1/26; ER 2/8; ET 2/13= BFN; FET#1: May 2010= m/c *NEW CLINIC Jan 2011* IVF#2: start stims 1/12; ER 1/22; ET 1/27= BFN; IVF#3: TBD
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