those with previous losses

hbkises · May 2010

do you have moments of panic?

I had one in the car on the way to work...it's stupid little things that set me off..for me, this morning, my boobs didn't hurt as much as they have and I started panicking...I don't want to have to go through a loss again and it just unnecessarily terrified me for a few minutes...I'll admit I'm hormonal...I bawled last night watching Pride and Prejudice.

but Please tell me I'm not alone in this...

Love Sugar Sweet Minxy · May 2010

I do. And I had a healthy pregnancy in between. I think that panic is something that all pregnant women experience, especially those of us with previous losses. I don't think that anything really can make it better either. Just try to stay sane, and know that you are doing everything that you can for your baby. ::hugs::

KTtheWife · May 2010

I definitely have moments of panic. Sometimes I will go pee on a stick and it will make me feel a bit better. You're definitely not alone.

dxiechicken41 · May 2010

Yes. I worry that my boobs aren't as big or as sore as they used to be - I make DH grope me regularly. Haha. I also am worried that I'm not barfing, just somewhat nauseous...first appt is Friday and I am soooo worried

PeetiePie · May 2010

Nope, you're not alone. Sometimes I forget I'm really pregnant. It's so weird this time around.

KatInTheHat28 · May 2010

I panic every day! I wish I had a ute camera so I could check on my LO every day.

It's so hard to trust that everything is okay.

*kendrick* · May 2010

Yes. I get days where I have VERY strong negative emotions or panic.

atdowns · May 2010

panic is totally normal and natural hun, dont get down on yourself, let it happen and ?do what you need to to deal with it. if that means an extra doc appointment just for affirmation, do that. if it means peeing on a stick to make sure ou get two pink lines, do that.. if itmeans eating half a tub og hagaan daz, do that too

I had a second trimester loss, i was really nervous and iwll be until I see theheart beat as i think all women are, but then the nerves will continue until well after what I call D day.?

last week I was having panic atacks in my sleep and had to take another pregnancy test to make sure I still had two lines... to my relief they were pinker than ever and last night the OB confirmed.?

also look for waqyt to avoid extra stress.. for me i had two options on seeing theheartbeat. I could go a few days early, when I might not be able to see the heart beat yet by a day or two... or I could wait and go the following week when it'd be more certain.. yes I'm eager to see it, but I know that the worry would consume me if i didnt see it the first time and had to wait a efw days, i'd be a complete basket case. so hubby and i are taking a little camping trip and seeing the heartbeat when we get back

for me I also have a physical thing that helps me relax, somehing I can go to when I get panicy. sounds silly but I haev a teddy bear that mom got me when we were pregnant last time. I get in a panic and go to it and hold it and take a deep breath. I remind myself intelectually that miscarriage happens and it wasnt my fault, I also remind myself that repeat miscarriages are even MORE rare than one time miscarriages.?

Then I remind myself spiritually that God is on control and His will is being done and that all things that happen in my life are for my good and for God's glory.?

I calm my physical self, my intelectual self and my spiritual self.?

HUGS I hope you cna find comfort, and even more than that JOY! you're pregnant!!! for 10 months, for one month, for one day, it's a miracle worth celebrating

uklawgirl · May 2010

Oh yeah I am worrying constantly in the back of my mind. This morning I had a weird cramp and was so scared to go to the bathroom because I didn't want to see any spotting.

skroops · May 2010

Yep, right there with you. I am trying to be positive and optimistic, but really I'm just terrified. And I'm glad that I'm not the only one that will POAS just because seeing that 2nd line will make me fell better (hey, I have to do something with all those internet cheapies, right?)

TrickyLittleMinx · May 2010

Today is the day i am in complete panic mode... I am sooooo scared..

My ta ta's still are in aching pain, but now i have this weird thing feeling like im bloated down thereish.. with tiny bits of cramping.. I am terrified.. I have gone to the bathroom 3 times already in the last hour.. i think im going to call my Dr to see is she will order me some b/w. Ugh..this is soo scary.

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