3rd Trimester

meanest MAN in the WORLD!!!

or at least i think, our complex has an outdoor pool that is used my residents, well this one guy was being a smart arse the other day when i was down there and asked if i was pregnant or just fat, me being the smart ass i am i said NO its a tumor, YES im pregnant. well management had the grand opening of the pool today, and this same smart ass says oh so you are still fat. im like im not fat. he then chimes up and says YOU KNOW THERE IS SUCH A THING AS JENNY CRAIG!!!!!

yah let me tell you how TICKED off and bad i felt afterwards. MAN i swear people dont think about other peoples feelings. and my husband was awesome he goes honey you arent fat you are 9 months pregnant and less then 2 weeks from your due date you look wonderful!

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  • Why didn't you say something to him???  OMG, I would have said very sarcastically, "Oh my gosh!  Well I'm going to the hospital pretty soon and all of a sudden I won't be fat anymore and I won't need that.  Won't that be awesome??" 
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  • tyke29tyke29 member
    I would tell management about this.  He should not be allowed at the pool.
  • imageMrsBalletStar05:
    Why didn't you say something to him???  OMG, I would have said very sarcastically, "Oh my gosh!  Well I'm going to the hospital pretty soon and all of a sudden I won't be fat anymore and I won't need that.  Won't that be awesome??" 

    This....or, "I didn't know Jenny Craig induced labor!! Thanks!"

    Although I like to think I'm so sassy, and when people say rude crap to me I just stand there and then come up with comebacks later.

  • imagetyke29:
    I would tell management about this.  He should not be allowed at the pool.

    This.  Not only does he sound rude, but he also sounds like a complete weirdo...  I don't know many guys who would say something like that to a pregnant woman.  Very odd.

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  • imagetyke29:
    I would tell management about this.  He should not be allowed at the pool.

    As dumb as this guy is, the management can't tell someone they are not allowed somewhere just because he's a rude a$$hole.  Telling them would do absolutely nothing. 

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  • I'd respond " Is that your real face, or did someone beat you with an ugly stick?"
  • Times like that are when I wish I could say "Yeah I've heard that - you know they have plastic surgeons for your face, right?"
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  • ames71ames71 member
    What a dipsh!t. Pregnant does not equal fat.
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  • Make sure you take hubby to the pool next time. I bet the guy won't say anything with your man there.   What a d-bag.
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  • tyke29tyke29 member
    imageMrsBalletStar05:

    imagetyke29:
    I would tell management about this.  He should not be allowed at the pool.

    As dumb as this guy is, the management can't tell someone they are not allowed somewhere just because he's a rude a$$hole.  Telling them would do absolutely nothing. 

    At my old apartments, two guys were banned from the gym area for this kind of stuff.  My management felt that common areas were for everyone and everyone should be respectful.  

  • imageKRISTA555:
    Make sure you take hubby to the pool next time. I bet the guy won't say anything with your man there.   What a d-bag.

     

    my husband was there today, but on the other side of the pool so didnt hear, he was waiting for him to say something else though!

  • I think my husband would have punched him.

    Sorry that happen, but clearly the guy has some issues, just try to let it go. 

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    imagetyke29:
    I would tell management about this.  He should not be allowed at the pool.

    This.  Not only does he sound rude, but he also sounds like a complete weirdo...  I don't know many guys who would say something like that to a pregnant woman.  Very odd.

     This!!!

  • Since it was not the first time, I feel you would be justified being rude back to him.  Something like "in a couple of weeks, I'll have a baby and have lost weight.  You on the other hand, will still be an ugly jerk."
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  • Holly88Holly88 member
    What a jackass. I would definitely complain to the apartment management. Especially since this is the second time he's said something to you. I don't know if it's because I live on a military base, but our housing management has rules about respecting neighbors. Any complaints can lead to you being kicked out. It's a private management company, not the military, so I imagine it must work like that in other places.
  • I would have made a small penis joke...but that's just me....

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  • tell him you can fix being "fat" but he will never be able to fix being stupid
  • what a jackass.  my hubby would have beat the sh!t out of him.
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