TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Next person who says be patient is getting a tp

(throat punch)

I'm livid right now! My stepmom is telling me be patient and it takes time to get it perfect blah blah blah. BS, because if it does then why do some people not have problems and get KU on the first try. Then she is telling me we all are trying to heal but is probably hardest for you. BS! Luis and I are the only ones trying to heal. This about us, no one else. I hate that people are trying to make our losses about them. I have told her everything I just said here. But I'm so angry and upset right now!

 

 

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Re: Next person who says be patient is getting a tp

  • oh FFS... give me her number.  I have a few words to say!

    ((hugs)) I am so sorry, sweetie

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    BLAGGHH! That is so beyond rude and insensitive.

    I am so sorry.

  • jen629jen629 member
    RUDE! and throat punch deserved! I am sorry hon!
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  • Totally uncalled for comment.  I think you're within your rights on the throat punch.  I'm so sorry.  You're going through enough already without having to deal with this BS.  ((hugs))
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  • Ugh!  That's just awful.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
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  • I'm so sorry.  People really just don't think before they speak.  TP is justified!
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  • Oh.My.God.  I have no idea how I restrain from b!tiching out every person who has said this to me.  They obviously have no idea what it's like to lose a baby, then to have trouble getting pregnant again.  B!tches.
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    Oh.My.God.  I have no idea how I restrain from b!tiching out every person who has said this to me.  They obviously have no idea what it's like to lose a baby, then to have trouble getting pregnant again.  B!tches.

    couldn't have said it better myself.

  • I wish I lived closer I would punch her for you. I hate when people say that.

    Jenn

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