I am due to have a c-section in 6 weeks with #2 and am starting to think about double strollers. DS will be almost 2-1/2 when DD arrives and I was thinking it might be nice to have a sit and stand stroller since DS is getting more and more independent however still needs some down time when we are out and about. After talking with DH, he thinks a double stroller is unecessary and suggested we get an umbrella stroller and just use our travel system stroller for DD when go on walks, outings, etc because he thinks we will always be together when we do these sort of things. However you never know when I might get the urge to get out by myself with the 2 of them.
Anyhow, I'm just wondering what some of you have done with 2 smaller children in this situation. Also, wearing baby probably won't be an option because 1. I'm not really comfortable with it and 2. DS was a big baby 11 lbs at 38.5 weeks and so he was always too heavy for me to wear and DD is on track to be almost as big as him.
TIA for your help!
Re: XP: For those of you with 2 children (stroller ?s)
I know you said carrying isn't an option, but is that strictly due to the babys' weight? Only reason I ask is b/c I got the Ergo with my son and started to use it around 4-5 months and it was truly awesome on my back and I didn't feel the weight.
For the stroller, I plan on getting the city mini double, a friend of mine has this with her 3 and 1 year old, she got it when they were infant and 2 and she loves it and said made her life so much easier. I looked at the sit and stands but I didn't like how long they were I saw someone trying to get in a door with it and it was nearly impossible so I got a bit freaked out by it!
If you haven't already you should try the ergo, it's the best baby carrier ever, it supports the back and is really comfortable.
My DD will be 2 1/2 when this LO gets here and we bought the baby jogger city select stroller, it can be a single stroller or a double stroller and holds the carseat, we plan on having more kids in the future so the price tag wasn't such a big deal. They also have a buggy board you can get that attachs to the back so that the older child can stand up and ride instead of sitting in the seat.
DD1 was just over 2 when DD2 was born. I thought about the sit and stand but ended up not getting it. I didn't think I could "trust" dd1 enough to walk or sit nicely in there when she didn't want to walk.
I definitely think a double is a good idea for exactly the reasons you mentioned - you don't like babywearing and what happens if you have both kids by yourself, which is BOUND to happen.
We got a great deal on the phil & teds with doubles attachment. It seemed the best in my mind since it was the size of a single and could be a single or double - great for the times when DD1 is walking, then I'm not hauling around some half empty, huge double stroller.
We ended up getting a double jogger from one of DH's friends for very cheap...although it is not what I really wanted....nor have I even seen it yet....but it will work for when I want to get both kiddos out by myself for a walk that is meant to get me exercise.
I am still looking at the sit n stands for shorter trips when something smaller is needed. The Joovy Ergo Caboose lets you put the infant seat in the back so that the toddler can still have the more comfy front seat. DS1 is just 2 and he still likes stroller rides, but I don't think he would stay put on the back seat quite yet.
Also another option for the sit n stand is to put baby in front w/o infant seat but have a carrier along in case toddler decides he really wants to sit inthe front for a nap or something.
We also have an Ergo so it could be used for either kid. Maybe try one of those, you will find it easier to carry #2 since you are now used to carrying your older heavier tot!