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DH won't have sex with me!

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He thinks I'm using him to get into labor.  
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Re: DH won't have sex with me!

  • Pearl723Pearl723
    My response to him would be "so?"   =)
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  • minaa7minaa7

    get over it DH   ;-)

    I hope you get him to give it up 

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  • sruehlsruehl
    Mine won't either! 
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  • mopsiemopsie member

    imagePearl723:
    My response to him would be "so?"   =)

    He's in a cast on his right arm til June 3 (I'll be 39 weeks) and he says he doesn't want LO to be born til he has a usable arm. 

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  • PSUBean22PSUBean22 member

    That is too funny..maybe he's worried you'll go into labor and he'll be exhausted from your activities...DH and I had sexy time, went into labor and he said "are you serious, I am exhausted now!"

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  • meangenemeangene

    Neither will mine - but it's because I'm too gassy Ick!

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  • The Future Mrs. RhodusThe Future Mrs. Rhodus
    lol thats the funniest thing I've heard all day. If I was doing that to DF he wouldn't mind at all :)
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  • BurnNurseBurnNurse
    Mine wont either.  Says something about LO being "right there".  I told him its not like Maddox is going to reach out and grab him! 
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  • anvloveskmeanvloveskme member
    Try morning sex - works like a charm for me!  Just think, he is already part of the way there...how can he resist if you just start to rub him the right way  ;o)
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  • stgn01stgn01 member
    My DH wouldn't give it up either.  Then I bribed him with ice cream!  That did the trick Wink


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  • amiseripamiserip member
    My husband wouldn't mind being used.
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  • Mrs. Alicia FrenchMrs. Alicia French
    My husband wouldn't with me either because of how big I am getting and it "freaked him out"!  But then we found a position that works for both of us and it's ALL good now!  But before we started the last time he did say "...ok babe, just don't go into labor on me!"  Hahaha!!!  I love my husband so much, I can't beleive we are down to our last few weeks "alone" together. 
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  • lytedarklytedark member

    imageBurnNurse:
    Mine wont either.  Says something about LO being "right there".  I told him its not like Maddox is going to reach out and grab him! 

    this is what's going on here as well.  and he's a smart guy, ya know?  intellectually i KNOW he knows he can't actually like, poke or hurt her.. but he can't get the mental image out of his head.  not even to help get this kid born!

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    My husband wouldn't mind being used.

    Ha!  Ditto this.

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  • STFWIFESTFWIFE
    That sucks, but be glad thats why he wont.  DH and I have not had sex in over a month.  He says its hard for him because he can't get past the fact that there is a baby in there, and heaven forbid she move when I almost have him in the mood. I think it's because I gotten so big. Crying
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  • CilleyCilley
    and...?  Nothing wrong with different motivations for having sex with DH.  Mine would like to have sex more often, but instead we went to a Indian restaurant so he could get some mixed pickle.  Wish I could deliver more often (only once in a while), but if his tastebuds are happy, then guess we are both ok for a little bit.
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  • miranda040miranda040 member
    mine won't have sex with me either...I am starting to hate him Crying
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  • susie985susie985

    imageamiserip:
    My husband wouldn't mind being used.

    HAHA, This!!

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  • tseveretsevere

    Mine won't either, but it's because "there's a BABY in there!"

    He's been like this with every pregnancy.  I made fun of him and told him there was no way he was big enough to feel baby or poke him.  Wouldn't ya know...  He did!  Lol.  My babies sit low, apparently, and he was freaking out cause he could feel baby on him!  Totally poking his head.  I thought he was ridiculous, so I checked myself (TMI) and could totally feel head with my finger.

    So yeah....  Once I hit 7 months it's morning or middle of the night sex only (times when he's totally ignorant to what's going on).

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  • muffie1303muffie1303
    We haven't had sex since November. DH says that knowing the baby is there freaks him out.
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  • nikki671nikki671

    Ive been after my hubby for a few wks now about having sexy time! he also cant get over the fact that LO is so close......

    However, last wk at my midwife appointment i asked her natural ways to induce labour and she right away said sex, sex, and more sex. i turned to my hubby and was like you hear that..... he was soooo embarrased but since then he is on board with sexy time :D

    I was so very happy to have the midwife say that and to think i didnt have to coach her on it either.LOL

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  • PubStar09PubStar09 member
    Heh... I think my DH is just kind of weirded out by sexy time.  We haven't had a successful session since right around my birthday, in early March. Huh?
    Batman likes to watch cartoons on the weekends. Whatever.
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