The only pair that fits perfectly for me right now do not have the belly band. They are black pin-striped pants from Motherhood. They are really low-cut in the front and have a thick elastic on the waistband, but it's still part of the pants (you could tuck in a shirt and no one could tell they're maternity pants). They also have small elastic bands on the interior hip part with buttons to adjust as you grow.
IDK if the way I described it makes sense, but these are the best fit for me right now. Even though the ones with the belly bands are comfy, they still roll down a lot.
Re: Jackie - s/o mat pants
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