Well, that's the thing. I was weepy for about the first week afterwards, and then I could count the number of times I cried in the ensuing 2 months on one hand. These last few days EVERYTHING makes me tear up. I am NOT a crier.
I have my weepy days too! i cried today watching ellen.... And the other day my FI told me something sweet and i cried for like a hour! He told me that i need to give him a warning when am having my "off days" my poor honey!
I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a rough time right now. I'm learning that these immense feelings of loss will always be with us....sometimes more stronger than other times, it seems.
I'm not an "emotional" person by any stretch of the imagination, so these tears which seem to spring out of nowhere are def a new sensation for me as well. And a bit annoying, since it seems like I don't have control over myself anymore.
Heck, I even cried at our annual homeowners association meeting yesterday when a neighbor I haven't yet met asked the innocent question "do you have any children?". She just stood there with a clueless look on her face as she watched my face crumple from that question. I felt bad for her, as it was clearly evident she didn't know what to say or do. She tried to make me feel better by saying "it's OK, they're not really worth it anyways."
The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete. Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10 BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
Re: I've been super weepy lately
I'm sorry, I your having a bad day. ((hugs))
Sorry you're going through a rough time. I'm the same way, but I seem to cry a little less each day.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a rough time right now. I'm learning that these immense feelings of loss will always be with us....sometimes more stronger than other times, it seems.
I'm not an "emotional" person by any stretch of the imagination, so these tears which seem to spring out of nowhere are def a new sensation for me as well. And a bit annoying, since it seems like I don't have control over myself anymore.
Heck, I even cried at our annual homeowners association meeting yesterday when a neighbor I haven't yet met asked the innocent question "do you have any children?". She just stood there with a clueless look on her face as she watched my face crumple from that question. I felt bad for her, as it was clearly evident she didn't know what to say or do. She tried to make me feel better by saying "it's OK, they're not really worth it anyways."
BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
I'm so sorry hun. I hate to cry also, and i just have to deal... or have rally sore cheeks from holding it in.
Why do cheeks hurt when you hold in a cry anyways?
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
As you know, our stories are fairly similar... If you ever want to talk. I am here...
I'm sorry - it's just so unpredictable, isn't it?! hugs!!