TTC After a Loss

**Sunflower****

you might want to change the blog link in your post to say UNofficial TTCAL blog.  thanks!!! :)

 

ETA: DELETED the word "railed."  I used it innappropriately.  I pictured it more as slapped on the hand with a ruler.  I didn't know it had those connotations. This is over.

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Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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Re: **Sunflower****

  • suntotosuntoto member

    imageleneae10:
    you might want to change the blog link in your post to say UNofficial TTCAL blog.  I got railed yesterday, so I changed mine.  thanks!!! :)

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    Um, no you didn't.  It was a discussion and a good one, not a criticism, railing or anything else you might want to call it.  It wasn't a lecture or anything else.  When people post things that affect all of us it is important to discuss them as a group so there are no misconceptions nor assumptions and there where a lot of misconceptions and assumptions about the blog, thus the DISCUSSION.   Can we please end this drama.  No one meant you harm, leneae.

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • imageleneae10:
    you might want to change the blog link in your post to say UNofficial TTCAL blog.  I got railed yesterday, so I changed mine.  thanks!!! :)

    Quoting the Urban dictionary:  Railed-The act of *** the living *** out of something or someone, preferably a female.

  • Sigh... I just read the other post that started all this drama.

    It would have been better to just PM you instead of starting a war on the board.

    I know your intentions are good. I'll change it.

  • suntotosuntoto member
    imageleneae10:

    ETA: DELETED the word "railed."  I used it innappropriately.  I pictured it more as slapped on the hand with a ruler.  I didn't know it had those connotations. This is over.

    But you where not "slapped on the hand with a ruler" either.  It was a discussion, nothing more than that and NO harm was meant.   The purpose was to address assumptions and misconceptions about it. End.of.story.

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • suntotosuntoto member
    imageSunflower730:

    Sigh... I just read the other post that started all this drama.

    It would have been better to just PM you instead of starting a war on the board.

    I know your intentions are good. I'll change it.

    Not when there where so many people who had misconceptions and assumptions about it.  And FWIW, I was not the only one who posted and had misconceptions about the blog.  Yes, I know her intentions are good, but when something is out there that affects us all and might contain our info on it, then we should all talk about it.  The discussion ended it all.  Also, it was not a war.  I have seen far worse on here and a peaceful discussion is far different from a board war. 

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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    I don't think a board 'war' was started here. Nor do I think anyone was slapped on the hand. 

    I think that if you're going to start an 'official' blog, you should at least have the thumbs up from 1) the people you're representing and in this case 2) from The Bump as you're representing them as well.

    I personally don't care what you do or don't do, but that's what makes something 'official' in my eyes.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • Oy.  I want to DD and make this go away.  Please make it stop.  IT'S OVER....
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    Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
    Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
    Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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  • imageSunflower730:

    Sigh... I just read the other post that started all this drama.

    It would have been better to just PM you instead of starting a war on the board.

    I know your intentions are good. I'll change it.

    If you think that was a board war, well, yikes. It was a very civil discussion. I think dragging it out is what's making drama. If she wanted to avoid drama, she just would have PMed you instead of saying she got railed or WTF ever.

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  • imageSunflower730:

    Sigh... I just read the other post that started all this drama.

    It would have been better to just PM you instead of starting a war on the board.

    I know your intentions are good. I'll change it.

    Oh honey if u think that was a board war, you haven't seen nothing yet! I have been through, participated and lived through some board wars...let me tell you!!! This was nothing more than a reasonable conversation.
  • I have seen my share of board wars...

    I was being sarcastic..

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