I've been looking through random registries today of people I know who are having babies. One thing that I find kind of off-putting, but not sure if it's just me, is people registering for things like stationary entertainers (exersaucers), walkers, jumperoos, etc. I guess I feel like the registry should be used for more newborn/infant specific items, however, I can also see where some people think anything the child will use during the first year is fair game.
What do y'all think?
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Meh, I put some of those items on mine. And all my friends put items like that on theirs. What else would be on a registry then... onesies and bathing supplies? Boringggg lol
Granted... the ones my husband and I picked out are on the less-expensive side. Regarding the items you mentioned, we picked out a stationary bouncer/saucer thingie, doorway jumper my husband loved, travel swing and travel bouncer.
I put everything on my registery, I had two large showers and was told to. Plus in my family people like the big things b/c they can go in on them together, I found with my shower that those smaller things hat you do need is actually what wasn't bought.
Its a registry your asking for gifts no matter what the gift is and the baby will use those stationary things (in my case at 4 months) early on.
If you go the route of newborn or infant, then there isn't a point in registering for umbrella strollers, high chairs, and things like that as well. The point is gifts for your little one.
Just because it's on the registry didn't mean that someone has to buy it. I'm a believer that you register for everything so you can use the discount after :P
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I feel like anything that is used in the 1st year is fair game. Children go through so many stages in that first years and you go through so many different items, the shower is to help you prepare for that.
Most of the older things I registered for are actually multi-stage, like the exersaucer https://www.buybuybaby.com/product.asp?SKU=16318094 .
If you think they should only get infant stuff, then only buy them infant stuff. I don't really get why you should be annoyed that they want to be prepared.
I can definitely see the other side of it, especially since some of you mentioned the discount you get off registry items. I hadn't thought of that.
haven't registered yet but i will definitely register for things that cover the 1st year, not just the first 6 months. heck, the last shower i was at, I am the one who BOUGHT the bouncer for my friend. I know the little guy still hasn't gotten in it yet (he's now four months) but it will be there when he needs it.
likewise, you don't use a high chair right away, but you still register for one, and yes, you get the completion discount when you do, so it's win win, even if nobody opts to get it for you.