I was going to post this last night but all you would have read is a string of profanities a mile long I didn't want to get booted off the bump.
So yesterday I got a OPK+ and I called DH at lunch (he had annual training during the day and I work 3-12am) and said I had gotten a postive OPK and I would leave work a little early, and the night prior he had said "well then tomorrow we'll have to set trying then right"
OK some in my demented mind I would assume that all of that would lead up to FWP when I got home...but NOOO. He plays this stupid world of warcraft game online all the time, and when I got home he was in the middle of some stupid battle or something with his stupid online buddies, he says ...get this...can't we tomorrow?![]()
me (in my head) why you stupid SOB what the fvck do you thing I've been these g_d damn OPK all g_d damn week and we can finally fvcking start trying again and you say maybe fvcking tomorrow![]()
I go downstairs and
into a big gulp size gin and tonic and later he comes down with a host of excuses and he says he couldn't bail on his "friends" and that couldn't we just go try now, no way I say and he says just come lay down, you'll feel like it in a bit..
No g_d damn way am I coming up there now you @sshole. I ovulate once a month and you put your stupid stupid game ahead of my descended eggos-eff you. (in the morning we did end up FWP, everythings fine, but we'll see this month?)
Whew, thanks girls that feels good to get out!
Re: Hump Day Hope=Fail :( longer and cursing involved.
I can sooooooo relate. I keep telling DH that his WOW days are numbered. He usually doesn't deny me FWP, but that is probably because I try to warn him when O week is coming up so he can schedule around it. How lame, right?
I am glad you got FWP in though..hopefully it will work and you won't have to worry about his dumb games anymore.
I was going to say that I could. not. live with a man that was into WOW. But I guess to some extent that's what it's like living with a woman who's always on The Bump.
Anyway, I would have been pissed. Straight up pissed. I hope he learned his lesson.
I think I could have written this myself, although to be fair DH is on a WOW break. Our eggs aren't going to wait. GRR DH.
On another note, I hope that was Bombay Sapphire Gin
fvck with purpose, during O usually
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Ugh! That's aggravating!!! I would've done the same as you.
I would have flipped the fvck out and upplugged the TV. After I downed the gin & tonic, of course! what an a$$.......
hopefully this morning did the trick!
oh girl...i soo understand. DH used to play WoW when we were dating. for a long time. he spent a lot of time and a lot of money on it...and i HATED it! it caused a lot of fights and issues. and we actually broke up for a few months. (not solely b/c of the game, but that definitely added to it). while we were apart he stopped playing and hasn't started it back up. everyone said that i made him stop, yada yada. and i didn't *make* him but it def was a perk!
DH is still a gamer at heart...and he still has a few games that he plays. but we have had many many talks about the boundaries and if he EVER chooses a game over me...he PAYS...BIG TIME.
but seriously...i HATE WoW. hate it. it's so addicting and i've never seen anything good come from one person in a relationship being that committed to it. (sorry if any of you girls play it...i don't even mind the game, it's how obsessive it becomes)
I hope everything works out hun! ((HUGS))
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