Do you ever/still

noah-bear · May 2010

just randomly have sad days? I've been very moody today. I wish DH would "get" it, but I keep taking my anger out on him. Today I flipped out on him because he's studying for finals and keeps napping, playing the Wii or watching Youtube. Tonight I'm just very sad. I've cried at both Glee and Parenthood and I still feel that lump in my throat waiting for me to cry.

Lorange-8 · May 2010

Last week I was like that, I didn't just have one day I had a whole week. Sometimes it's random days as well, but yes you are NOT alone, I think we all have these randon days. I hope tomorrow is better, sending you smiles!!!

twinkletoes815 · May 2010

Yes, I still do 5 months later. Some days I'll be completely fine, then the next day, BAM...I'm in a down mood, sad, feeling like all is lost.

nina&matt · May 2010

I have days where I am so optimistic, and at peace with things.. and then there are days when I can't seem to peel myself out of bed because I am so sad. I hope tomorrow is better for you hun. ((hugs))

AlpacaBunny · May 2010

**hugs** It is really normal to have rough days and even weeks so soon after your loss. I lost my first baby in May (it was 2 years ago), but I think I didn't really feel back to 'normal' (didn't break down sobbing randomly every other day) until about August. I also had another loss in July so that made things worse.

Honestly, I still have my sad days, and this week has been really hard for me, which is why I've been visiting this board again. The anniversary of my first loss was last week and then mother's day came, which was right after when I lost Hope and it brought back a lot of hard memories. What I've learned is that the grief will be with me forever, and there will be times when it hits hard all over again. I also tend to take it out on my husband when I'm sad. I was a horrible b!tch last week and never really told him it was just because I was sad thinking about the anniversary of losing Hope. I went to the cemetery and cried it out and then felt better.

Hang in there, this journey isn't easy. **big hugs to you**

Tim'sWifey · May 2010

Oh my word, yes. And I expect to get them until the day I die. Just go with it. Cry if you want to cry. Beat the crap out of pillows if you think it'll help. Scream if you want to scream. I've also learned that for me, going to bed when I just turn weepy helps.

::hugs::

Zed58 · May 2010

Totally have those days. LOTS of em. Dh told me I need to "stop doing this to myself." Ummm. . . .WHAT!?!? You stop! I'll cry when I need to cry. Yell when I need to yell. Sleep when I need to sleep.

I don't want to be sad and/or b!tchy anymore, but I am and I will continue to be so. Some days worse then others and some days even worse yet.

SassyMamainVA · May 2010

Yes, yes, yes. It's like a rollercoaster. Some days I'll be so happy and care free. Then...BAM! I'll have a day where it hurts to smile and it's just easier to cry. I'm not sure if that will ever go away. I just go minute by minute these days.

SmallestWilk · May 2010

Yes, yes of course. And random things can trigger it...Like the Folgers Coffee commercial where the girl is telling her dad she is engaged. Yep--random tears. And the gut-punch feeling in my stomach when I get out of the shower and see my flat belly.

jerriesgirl · May 2010

Tim'sWifey:

Oh my word, yes. And I expect to get them until the day I die. Just go with it. Cry if you want to cry. Beat the crap out of pillows if you think it'll help. Scream if you want to scream. I've also learned that for me, going to bed when I just turn weepy helps.

::hugs::

Definitely this. I got sad during the childbirth scene during LOST last night. Just surrounded by triggers of memories.

erinb1025 · May 2010

I'm sorry Noah! I do still have those days where I blow up at everything or everyone and then just want to cry my eyes out. I hope you start feeling better soon!

Chicwed · May 2010

yes!! yesterday was like that for me. i cried 3 times at work and more when i got home. i think it's just all part of the grieving process. ((((hugs))))

Amanda02a · May 2010

Yes, random sadness. DH trys to be understanding, but I think it is hard for him to see me fine all week and have a complete melt down on a random Thursday night for no apparent reason.

PS- I cried at Glee last night also! TWICE!

elizabeth&james · May 2010

yes! see my post from earlier in the day yesterday! I have Glee and Parenthood on DVR but haven't watched yet- looks like I better bring Kleenex! Sometimes you have to have a good cry just to get rid of the lump and reset. Hope today is a better one!

Izabella22 · May 2010

Sometimes its random days, sometimes just hours or moments. But yeah me too.

mrsmacias2008 · May 2010

yeah, last week was bad...I didn't want to get out of bed. There are way too many days where I am doing just fine and all of a sudden it hits me.

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