Infertility

Pardon me while I de-lurk.

Hi ladies. I hope you have room for one more. I'm not comfortable discussing my lack of fertility with my friends and family, so I've been dealing with it on my own (except for DH, of course).

 

We've been TTC since June 08. The attempts were admittedly halfhearted at first (I wasn't tracking ovulation),  but several medical issues intervened, and here I am.

 

I have a blocked tube, and *maybe* PCOS. Unfortunately, the Canadian medical system has not been my friend. I was hospitalized in Dec 08 for severe pain and cramping, was told that I had an ectopic pregnancy, was told I DIDN'T have an ectopic pregnancy, and referred to a specialist. It took 6 days less a year to be able to see the specialist.

 

I'm waiting for my appointment so I can book a date for laparoscopy. Hopefully then, the specialist will finally reveal my DH's sperm analysis results. We have been left hanging for months, and I'm going crazy not being able to talk about it. I had an appointment last week, but upon arriving, I was informed it had been cancelled.

 

I know that my struggle hasn't been heartbreaking. It's simply frustrating. I'm so tired of waiting, and I'd just like some answers.

 

One more thing: I currently know 15 pregnant girls, and while I'd like to think I don't resent them, it's been hard seeing all of the baby bump albums. 

I've probably been on The Bump longer than you have.

After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11

BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April

Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16

Re: Pardon me while I de-lurk.

  • Wow, all that waiting would definitely be frustrating! I'm so sorry! I hope you get some answers soon and an action plan. Welcome to the board!
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  • Welcome!! We always have room for more. I hope your stay is short, and I am sorry to hear about all the frustration that you have been dealing with. (((HUGS))) Hope you get some answers at your appt!
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    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
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  • Welcome...I am pretty new here too. I am so sorry you have had such a hard time getting answers! Are there any other specialists you can see in your area? It seems like that practice doesn't have enough staff to keep up with their patient case load.Hope it doesn't take much longer for you to join your 15 friends!! 
  • Thanks for the warm welcome!

     

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     Are there any other specialists you can see in your area? It seems like that practice doesn't have enough staff to keep up with their patient case load.

     

    Sadly, there's a doctor shortage in my city. The waiting lists are months long. Once you're in with the fertility specialist, you're seen fairly regularly. It took me a year to see him, but I'm in now.

    I've probably been on The Bump longer than you have.

    After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11

    BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April

    Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16
  • Wow-that is so frustrating! I can not believe it takes that long! GL to you on finally getting some answers!
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  • Welcome and good luck! I am sorry you are dealing with all the waiting to get answers. I hope you have them soon!
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  • Welcome and good luck!
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  • Good luck...I hope you get some answers sooner than later.

     

  • Hi and welcome :)

    I cannot imagine how frustrated you must be at this point! Sometimes I thing the waiting to start treatments or between cycles is harder than actually cycling. I really hope you get some answers soon hon.

    GL! 

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  • I'm from Windsor and the wait to see anyone is so horrible. I want the appointment like...a year ago! My OB wanted trying for 1 year and now I am on Clomid (it has been 3 cycles). It has been a total of 18 months TTC now! My OB appt just got cancelled for this week ,,,we were supposed to finally be referred to 1 of the 2 Specialists in town. I'm sure there will be another WAITING period to see the Specialist.......I'm thinking 3.5 months ......shall we take any bets!!!!!!!
    TTC since 2009 very frustrated 42yr and DH 40

    5 cycles of Clomid with satisfactory response=BFN's
    Fibroid removal Nov2010
    IUI Clomid #1 Feb 2011...BFN..damn it!
    IUI Inject's #2 Apr 2011...CANCELLED...low estradiol
    IUI Inject's #3 June 2011...BFN
    IUI Inject's #4 Sept2011...BFFN
    Lap Dec 2011...severe endo..cyst removed..some remains...
    IVF#1 Apr 2012 ....cancelled due to over suppression
    IVF#2 July 2012....6 follies...only 1 retrieved....BFFN
    surgery suggested to move ovary to an better placement but....we moved two time zones away and are financially and emotionally empty

  • I'm a lurker too and finally just jumped in.  I hope you get your answers really soon and that you find support here.  Lots of luck!!
  • welcome aboard!  hope your stay is short :)

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  • Welcome to the board.  I can only imagine how frustrating the process has been!  Hopefully you will get some answers soon.
  • I'm so sorry to hear about your long wait.  That must be very frustrating!

    Welcome, GL and I hope your stay is short!

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  • Hi! I also de-lurked today and want to wish you good luck.

    All of the waiting involved in IF just about kills me. I hope you don't have to wait much longer for some answers. And I completely understand your feelings about the pregnant people surrounding you. My sister is currently 28 weeks pregnant and often I just avoid her all together (along with the multiple other pregnant people in my life). It makes me sad that I've become so jealous and bitter- one day I don't want to cringe when I see an ultrasound pic or baby bump.

     

    lap 9/09= mild endo & PCO (but not S) SA= normal IUI #1-#4= BFN IUI #5 cancelled- too many follies IVF #1 = BFP
  • Thank you so much to everyone for the warm welcome. :) I'll definitely be around tomorrow to get to know everyone.

    I've probably been on The Bump longer than you have.

    After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11

    BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April

    Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16
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