My grandmother's maiden name is Aberle (pronounced long A - burr - lee). What do you think of this as a girl's name? Does it sound cutesy and made up if people don't know it's a family name? We would probably use NN Abby because DH loves that.
My instinct would be to pronounce it "A-burl" when first seen. It doesn't necessarily feel made-up, but you might have to correct people's pronunciation/spelling all the time.
I actually think this is really cute. You will have to correct people from time to time, but I don't think it is awful. And the nn Abby is really cute!
Of course it is going to sound made up and strange to people that didnt know your Grandmother, but what matters is that you are wanting to use the name to honor her. Like pp's said about the name looking like A-burl -- i would think that too but once you tell them how to pronounce it, it shouldnt be a problem. Also Abby is a darling nn
I like it a lot. It is uncommon without sounding made up. I also have to disagree with it sounding masculine, sorry ladies thats just my opinion. I actually think it sounds quite girly with the long e sound on the end. Hope that helps in your decision making
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I like it. Not sure how you feel about spelling it differntly (lots of people hate that!) but people wouldn't be as confused if you spelled it Aberley.
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Re: Opinions on a family name...
I actually think this is really cute. You will have to correct people from time to time, but I don't think it is awful. And the nn Abby is really cute!
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I like it, though I said Ah-berl at first. You can correct people if needed. I like that it is an old family name and like the nn Abby.
I agree with this. I think it sounds very masculine.
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I hadn't thought of this - good point.
this.
but I would add that if you are going to call her Abby (which I love) you may not run into this problem TOO much.
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DH= low motility
2/9/11 lap & hysteroscopy- uterine polyp & scar tissue removed
3/25/11 IUI#1= BFP m/c; D&C at 7w3d (Trisomy 16)
IUIs #2, #3, #4 and #5= BFNs
Onto IVF #1= BFN
FET 4/6/12= 2 extended blasts transferred, with one hatching
Beta 1= 607; Beta 2= 1,564; Beta 3= 24,439; Beta 4= over 64,000
First u/s on 5/10= TWINS! Heartbeats 158 and 160!
It's a boy and a girl!
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Huge congrats to my beautiful BFPB lmj8284, due June 2012!
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Clearly I'm in the minority here, but I really like it a lot. IMO it's a very pretty name!