So... I need a TTCAL buddy :)

eminbmore · May 2010

It's time, I need a buddy

A little about me (in case you didn't know ) - I have a 15 month old DS, and after him we had two losses in a row, in January and April. We're currently seeing an RE (who is great!) for RPL testing, and we're hoping to TTC again at the end of June or early July (although if you're TTC now it's ok, I will cheer you on!). In the meantime, I need to lose some weight (which means I should probably put down the cookie I'm currently eating ;-)).

Any takers?

DoingItRight · May 2010

I would be happy to be your buddy because mine disappeared....

vflipo · May 2010

I have a bunch but there's always room for more. I'm a buddy whore

JuJuBe3 · May 2010

vflipo:
I have a bunch but there's always room for more. I'm a buddy whore

Agree. There's always room for more and Val really is a BW.

I'd love more buddies. I need someone to help keep my spirits up. We are waiting a few more months, I think, and am feeling pretty down.

vflipo · May 2010

toddandjulie:
vflipo:
I have a bunch but there's always room for more. I'm a buddy whore

Agree. There's always room for more and Val really is a BW.

I'd love more buddies. I need someone to help keep my spirits up. We are waiting a few more months, I think, and am feeling pretty down.

We are waiting a few months too! I might lose it :-/

eminbmore · May 2010

Sold! Three buddies is better than one, any day :-D

Adding you all to my siggy now. That makes it officially official ;-)

srleine · May 2010

I also don't have a TTCAL buddy!

JuJuBe3 · May 2010

eminbmore:

Sold! Three buddies is better than one, any day :-D

Adding you all to my siggy now. That makes it officially official ;-)

Great! I'm adding you too. I think we have a lot in common. I just went through my 2nd loss in March and have had some testing done (just through my OB). I am in the process of trying to lose my pre-pg and pre-m/c weight.

Page me or PM me any time!

Julie

eminbmore · May 2010

vflipo:
toddandjulie:
vflipo:
I have a bunch but there's always room for more. I'm a buddy whore

Agree. There's always room for more and Val really is a BW.

I'd love more buddies. I need someone to help keep my spirits up. We are waiting a few more months, I think, and am feeling pretty down.
We are waiting a few months too! I might lose it :-/

I agree with this too. I thought I was totally cool with waiting, and was going to be fine with it... and I was, for exactly one month. Then suddenly I got the panicky "when am I O'ing? what is my body doing? why aren't I pregnant? I want a BABY!" feeling again and it hasn't gone away. Holding off for another month or two seems like forever

eminbmore · May 2010

toddandjulie:
eminbmore:

Sold! Three buddies is better than one, any day :-D

Adding you all to my siggy now. That makes it officially official ;-)

Great! I'm adding you too. I think we have a lot in common. I just went through my 2nd loss in March and have had some testing done (just through my OB). I am in the process of trying to lose my pre-pg and pre-m/c weight.

Page me or PM me any time!

Julie

Baby weight for a baby that you don't get to take home is just cruel

JuJuBe3 · May 2010

eminbmore:
toddandjulie:
eminbmore:

Sold! Three buddies is better than one, any day :-D

Adding you all to my siggy now. That makes it officially official ;-)

Great! I'm adding you too. I think we have a lot in common. I just went through my 2nd loss in March and have had some testing done (just through my OB). I am in the process of trying to lose my pre-pg and pre-m/c weight.

Page me or PM me any time!

Julie

Baby weight for a baby that you don't get to take home is just cruel

Yep. It's pretty much total bullsh!t in my eyes. I have gained about 15 pounds and am just pissed. You can probably guess that my body image is in the toilet.

iammad · May 2010

srleine:
I also don't have a TTCAL buddy!

I don't either and would love one, or two or three...

JuJuBe3 · May 2010

vflipo:
toddandjulie:

vflipo:
I have a bunch but there's always room for more. I'm a buddy whore

Agree. There's always room for more and Val really is a BW.

I'd love more buddies. I need someone to help keep my spirits up. We are waiting a few more months, I think, and am feeling pretty down.

We are waiting a few months too! I might lose it :-/

I know, I almost feel bored or boring being on this board because we're waiting. I have pulled back a little in the last week. I need to be mentally ready to go when we decide the time is right and, honestly, I'm not.

I hope you're doing well and are ready when the TTC month gets here.

eminbmore · May 2010

toddandjulie:
eminbmore:
toddandjulie:
eminbmore:

Sold! Three buddies is better than one, any day :-D

Adding you all to my siggy now. That makes it officially official ;-)

Great! I'm adding you too. I think we have a lot in common. I just went through my 2nd loss in March and have had some testing done (just through my OB). I am in the process of trying to lose my pre-pg and pre-m/c weight.

Page me or PM me any time!

Julie

Baby weight for a baby that you don't get to take home is just cruel

Yep. It's pretty much total bullsh!t in my eyes. I have gained about 15 pounds and am just pissed. You can probably guess that my body image is in the toilet.

Oh yeah, I feel the same. I do not look good, at all. I finally went out the other day and bought some clothes that make me feel cute, because nothing else fits me and I was sick of dragging around the house looking like a homeless person. Now at least I'm still a chunk, but at least a well-dressed one sometimes ;-)

erinb1025 · May 2010

me! me! and we live (somewhat) close to each other, so if you ever wanted to meet IRL I'm up for that too! and if you pick another buddy, I'm still up for meeting anytime!

srleine · May 2010

I'm very new to all of this, how do I add people and become buddies???

madladybride · May 2010

I'd like a buddy, too and I'm near B'more. I've had 2 losses and am waiting for my forever baby.

DoingItRight · May 2010

erinb1025:
me! me! and we live (somewhat) close to each other, so if you ever wanted to meet IRL I'm up for that too! and if you pick another buddy, I'm still up for meeting anytime!

Where in MD do you live?

erinb1025 · May 2010

DoingItRight:

erinb1025:
me! me! and we live (somewhat) close to each other, so if you ever wanted to meet IRL I'm up for that too! and if you pick another buddy, I'm still up for meeting anytime!

Where in MD do you live?

I'm on the Eastern Shore of MD. about half way between the Bay Bridge and Ocean City. you?