TTC After a Loss

My sil is in labor

I'm super excited for her and can't wait to see pics and hear about our little niece. At the same time I'm also sad for myself. I would have been 22 weeks today. This is my first 2ww and I'm trying to find a balance between being hopeful, but not getting my hopes up (does that make sense?). I'm nervous because we did all that we can this cycle and if it ends with a bfn I won't lie I'll probably be pretty sad.

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  • hugs, it is very hard to find that balance.  I hope this cycle ends in a bfp
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • yay for her.             :(   for you. 

    i'm sowwy fwend.  i hope that this cycle works out for you. 

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  • I am happy for them but sad for you. You are such a dear to be excited to hear about it all. I hope this is your bfp cycle!
    BFP 1/8/10, missed mc 2/15/10, baby @8w3d. Natural mc 2/23/10 Goodbye our sweet little peanut. We love you so. Every lament is a love song...
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    I'm sure your SIL appreciates your excitement and support.  And ((BIG HUGS)) to you for being that supportive when its so difficult for you.  Keeping my fingers crossed for your BFP!
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  • hugs to you.  i hate the 2 ww wait also.  i hope you get your BFP this month!
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    yay for her.             :(   for you. 

    i'm sowwy fwend.  i hope that this cycle works out for you. 

    Can't say it any better myself.

  • I hope that everything goes smoothly for your SIL and I know you will love your trip to see the new baby : )

     I am sorry you're a little sad, but I know what you mean, and you know I am sending up big prayers for you during this 2ww.

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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • (((big hugs))) I know it's hard to be happy for other people having babies.


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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