I know 2 of my SILs are planning a baby shower for June. I really don't want a bunch of cards, and would love it if everyone brought a book for Miss C.
Is it wrong for me to ask SILs to mention something on the invite about bringing books instead of cards?
Re: Baby shower question
I dont think it's wrong at all. Its your shower and you and baby are being honored, therefore I think you should get some kind of say in what's going on.
I think people bring books is a great idea. I would say something like...In honor of the mother and baby C, Liz asks that a book be brought instead of cards. I think Monica did a shower where this was on the invitation, hopefully she'll chime in.
We put:
"In lieu of a card, please bring a children's book to help build _____'s library. Please sign the inside of the book so that _____ and ____ will think of you every time they read it."
I love this and I'm sending it to the ones doing my baby shower.