Also, because I'm bored.
When/Where did you and your S/O meet? Did you date right away?
DH and I met 12 years ago in a bar/"pool hall" (Players Pub) in Sacramento.
I was dating one of the bouncers. DH and his friends were regulars/"pool sharks" there. (We became friends). To make a long story short, one night the bouncer broke up with me. I went back to DH's apartment with him and basically, never left. (Or, as he puts it, "a pink comforter showed up and never left.")
Re: How did you and S/O meet? (stolen from 3rd tri)
worked at the same bar
church - end of 2003
I was the nursery director & he was the drummer
We met in HS. I was dating a guy I hated and was always trying to get away from. I told ex that I liked someone else and said it was DH. That finally got ex to go away. That all happened at our JROTC ball and I danced with DH that night.
The next day I asked him to prom (which was 2 weeks away) and we started dating the week after that.
I was with a friend at the gas station in college. Said the guy in the car over was cute. She said she knew him. Introduced me to him a couple days later. After I met him I said he was too cocky and talked too much.
We ran into each other alot in the dorms after that - most of the time we were bickering (which I guess was flirting).
2 months later I told my friend to set me up with a guy for our sorority formal. She said she was going to ask him. I said "yeah, funny". She did. He showed up. And the rest is history.
He's my best friend's brother. We didn't date right away, but 11 years after meeting.
I even went to his first wedding. I remember dancing with him thinking "Damn, he got away!" Little did I know.... :-)
Small world. Um I go to Players Pub with my girlfriends! lol I live 10min away.
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We met through a mutual college friend, several years after college, when I was in the process of moving to the Bay Area for grad school and he was already there at a different school. My friend had gotten some people together so that I'd have a bit of a social circle, since I didn't really know anyone there, and DH was one. We hit it off immediately, he took a day later that week to show me around, and the rest is history.
What's more interesting is how we didn't meet. My younger sister hung out with a bunch of his fraternity brothers (she went to the same college), but we never crossed paths. We narrowed it down to one particular party where I was drinking at the bar and he was bartending, but we never met. When I was going through pics for a rehearsal dinner slideshow, I found a pic of that party with a bunch of mutual friends, and we're standing three feet apart, facing opposite directions -- seven years before we got married.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
I love this. lol
I guess that's sort of what happened with DH and me. I didn't expect to spend the rest of my life with him after that one night.
Crazy. We haven't been back to "Players" since our honeymoon, 8 years ago. We stopped in for 1 drink.
Are there still 2 locations? The one we frequented was the "nicer" of the 2 in my opinion. I think it was on "Fair Oaks"? The other location was maybe 1/4 mile away?