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I vote we skip May.

Mrs.EmmaLouiseMrs.EmmaLouise member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

It's my least favorite month of the year.  Not only does it hold Mother's day, but also several family birthdays, an annual trip to visit MIL a six hour drive away, and two EDDs.  

Both EDDs are the same day (may 31st), which I thought would be nice.  Only one day to dread.  But, no.  I'm dreading this year so much more then I was last year.  Why?  Twice the disappointment.  I should have a one year old, and a new born.  But what do I have?  An exercise bike I never use, and a very diverse liquor cabinet.  Fabulous.  I love my life.

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If anyone needs me, I'll be in my bed crying and hiding from May.  See you in June. 

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Re: I vote we skip May.

  • jen629jen629 member
    awwww {{HUGS}}}}}
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  • schen0510schen0510
    I'm so sorry.  I Vote we skip may as well.  Last year we had our retrieval for IVF on 5/5 and our transfer on 5/10, mother's day last year, and our anniversary.  We really thought that all of the stars aligned to give us our forever babies...and here we are...without our 2 boys.  So...I am with you for skipping May.
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    Aww, Emma, I'm sorry. May is shiitty, no doubt about it.
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  • ShemicoShemico member
    *hugs*
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    ((hugs))
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member

    ::BIG hugs::

    I hate May too.

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I am ready to skip May also. All I keep seeing is commercials and ads with mother's day mentioned.

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  • tripplaartripplaar member
    I'm so sorry. I'm dreading it too, My EDD is on the 4th and I'm anxious for it to be over.
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  • candyliescandylies
    I vote for skipping it too. My EDD is May 13th and my mother has passed away so mother's Days haven't been good for me the past few years.
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    That's it.  Tomorrow is officially June 1st in TTCAL 6+ land.
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

    HAPPY FIRST OF JUNE!!!!

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    Okay, but seriously, I'm sorry May's your bad month.  :(  And giant bear hugs (like this, but bigger). 

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm sorry Emma.  Skipping May sounds great to me.
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  • Cissi64Cissi64

    I'm sorry Emma.  One of my losses happened right before Mother's Day so May is not a fun time for me either.  Having children doesn't make it any better.  I keep thinking about the ones that are missing from the  table and DH has a bad habit of forgetting the day altogether so there is usually no celebration to speak of.

    Skipping sounds like a wondeful idea.

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  • Orchard27Orchard27 member
    ~hugs~ My first EDD is May 20th, so I'm with ya!  The only downside for me is my birthday being June 3rd.  31 here we come.  gulp.
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member

    Yes, please! I'm so up for skipping the month of May. Lots of hugs for you, hang in there!

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