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Friend is pregnant w/4th!

chrisbrianchrisbrian
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So I just found out that my very fertile friend is pregnant with her 4th!  Her 3rd isn't even a year old yet...he will be in May.  I'm so happy for her but I have to admit very jealous that she can get pregnant so easy.
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  • lovemymonkeylovemymonkey
    I still get jealous of women who get pregnant easily too. (((((((hugs))))))
    After 5 years of TTC, 3 IUIs, 5 IVFs, 2 FETs, multiple losses and an adoption that wasn
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  • SarahandAngelSarahandAngel
    I think it is totally normal to feel that way. I have some very fertile friends also and it can be hard. But hopefully your IVF will work and you can be pregnant with her. Positive energy your way!
    TTC#1 since 7/07 with MFI and Endo/PCOS IUI #1 and #2 with 50mg of clomid= BFN IUI#3 with 100mg of clomid and Bravelle= BFN Lap surgery 11-18-09= found Stage IV Endo :( Three months of Depot Lupron Shots and adding 2000mg Metformin IVF w/ ICSI May 2010 = BFP, M/C at 6 weeks Break to lose weight, down 60 pounds and gearing up for IVF #2 in August 2011
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  • ALY1981ALY1981
    I get the same way, it's understandable :(

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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    This is my SIL... every year she was pregnant before her littlest's first birthday... four kids this way!  My littlest nephew's 1st b-day was a couple weeks ago and I was dreading another announcement, but she seems to have broken her streak!  I'm glad because that announcement may have broken me.  And I know she hated having to tell me each year, knowing it wasn't happening for me.  I say take some time to be down about it in private and get it out of your system, and try your best to be happy for her.  *hugs*
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  • k-martk-mart
    ((hugs)) totally normal to feel that way!
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  • Ren's brideRen's bride member
    I completely know how you feel--happy for (and a little jealous of) your friend, sad that it's not you yet, and a little guilt over feeling the jealousy.  There should be a name for that combination of emotions...
    2009: 1st IVF began 12/29, cancelled due to OHSS; 1st full IVF began 2/10 ER 2/27 ET 3/4 BFN 3/13; IVF #2 began 5/23 ER 6/4 ET 6/9 BFP 6/18 Lost our baby on 9/12. 2010: IVF #3 (w/PGD) began 2/1 ER: 2/15 ET: 2/20 BFN 3/1; Took a break for hernia surgery and recovery; IVF #4 (w/PGD) began 6/30 ER 7/13 ET 7/18 BFN 7/27; IVF #5 began 10/23 ER 11/5 ET 11/10 Low Pos 11/19 BFN 11/22; Took a break: got a 2nd opinion,changed insurance,chose a new RE,and recharged emotionally. 2011: "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 6/4, 6/6, and 6/7 BFN on 6/21. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/3 & 7/5 BFN on 7/19. "Back-to-Back" IUIs on 7/30, 8/1 & 8/2...the journey continues into 2012 with three more IVFs and 6 more IUIs...now looking at IVF with donor egg Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
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  • kthappy76kthappy76
    Sounds like my sister!  She's had three in the last three years (all on the first try!).  I've already told her the next one is mine... ;)
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

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  • psychgalbridepsychgalbride member
    ((hugs))  I think we all that that fertile myrtle friend that we would like to punch.  My BFF had 3 kids in 3 years. Must be nice...
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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member

    imagekthappy76:
    Sounds like my sister!  She's had three in the last three years (all on the first try!).  I've already told her the next one is mine... ;)

    Ditto this, lol!  My SIL's third kid, my nephew who's 2 1/2 now, looks just like my husband as a baby... everyone comments on it.  He is a little thicker whereas SIL and her DH and their other 3 kids are all skin & bones.  DH & I have some meat on our bones to say the least.  I always kid that we could take him and no one would be the wiser that he wasn't truly ours.  ;-)

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