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a4smith · April 2010

Just remember its Friday!!! Stick out tongue

I dont know about any of you...but Im sick of reading post written by (seemingly) "snot nose know it alls" trying to tell other mothers what to do with their children.

Just saying

IrishBrideND · April 2010

lol then I'm not sure why you are on this board.

murfygirl · April 2010

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

a4smith · April 2010

IrishBrideND:
lol then I'm not sure why you are on this board.

true, I think thats why I dont get on much anymore

bbarukh · April 2010

kate1011 · April 2010

a4smith · April 2010

murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

Oh how I love thee!

IrishBrideND · April 2010

murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

sleepingbeauty825 · April 2010

murfygirl:
WOHOO!!! LOL
I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I would never let my baby cry for seven hours!!! We would just sit down and have an adult conversation about how you should only cry when something is wrong, and then everything would be peachy! What's your problem, Murf, didn't you try that?

heather_09_15_07 · April 2010

IrishBrideND:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

Yes

murfygirl · April 2010

sleepingbeauty825:
murfygirl:
WOHOO!!! LOL
I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! Don't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!
I would never let my baby cry for seven hours!!! We would just sit down and have an adult conversation about how you should only cry when something is wrong, and then everything would be peachy! What's your problem, Murf, didn't you try that?

I think we have communication issues. I am going to try the adult coversation again!

murfygirl · April 2010

sleepingbeauty825:
murfygirl:
WOHOO!!! LOL
I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! Don't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!
I would never let my baby cry for seven hours!!! We would just sit down and have an adult conversation about how you should only cry when something is wrong, and then everything would be peachy! What's your problem, Murf, didn't you try that?

I think we have communication issues. I am going to try the adult conversation again!

sapphire angel · April 2010

sleepingbeauty825:
I would never let my baby cry for seven hours!!! We would just sit down and have an adult conversation about how you should only cry when something is wrong, and then everything would be peachy! What's your problem, Murf, didn't you try that?

LMBO...I just about fell out my chair laughing. All though LO has had very serious sounding comments on my mothering skills when she is displeased with my attempts ...

asickles98 · April 2010

sleepingbeauty825:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I would never let my baby cry for seven hours!!! We would just sit down and have an adult conversation about how you should only cry when something is wrong, and then everything would be peachy! What's your problem, Murf, didn't you try that?

DH sometimes holds Olivia while she's crying and tells her to use her words, so he knows what's wrong. Makes me laugh everytime, cause she will stop look at him for a minute and cry louder!

mrsfox1369 · April 2010

I try to give my advice but I'll admit, even I have no idea what I'm doing lol. I get infront of my MIL and DD starts fussing and if I can't get her to calm down I feel like I'm a failure as a mother in her eyes... and she only ever gives me 2 minutes to calm her down before trying to rip her out of my arms.. I hate that.

My FFFC.. I am so embarressed by DD. She has man farts and she'll fart everywhere and people think it's me!!! Oh and they smell HORRIBLE. lol.

murfygirl · April 2010

heather_09_15_07:
IrishBrideND:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

You have no idea what the hell I am talking about. I don't leave DS for 7hrs but I hold him while he cries for 7hrs. Sometimes walking away for 10 minutes to take a deep breath is healthy and safer!

I am more irritated with people giving me crappy advice to make DS stop crying. If I am at my wits end don't you think I have tried everything and more?

a4smith · April 2010

SpringPeeper:
you didn't even read the OP that stemmed all this. Quit whining.

Oh you must be one of them LoL...I read many others that started all of this lastnight. Thanks for your input though...greatly appreciated LoL

IrishBrideND · April 2010

a4smith:

SpringPeeper:
you didn't even read the OP that stemmed all this. Quit whining.

Oh you must be one of them LoL...I read many others that started all of this lastnight. Thanks for your input though...greatly appreciated LoL

i'm pretty sure this started this morning. Are you talking about the poster who let a 3 day old CIO for 45 minutes? If not, fill us in on what you are talking about.

eileen32 · April 2010

Sometimes you attempt everything and your newborn will still cry...that does not mean you leave her to cry alone...then you just hold her, or take turns with DH holding her and keep trying. No one is saying a newborn is not going to cry...it's leaving a newborn alone to cry...whether or not they are able to show it...being held while crying is a huge comfort to them.

a4smith · April 2010

Pretty sure there was not one specific post I was referring to...just in general. Did I say in my OP that I was talking about a specific post?

IrishBrideND · April 2010

murfygirl:
heather_09_15_07:
IrishBrideND:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

You have no idea what the hell I am talking about. I don't leave DS for 7hrs but I hold him while he cries for 7hrs. Sometimes walking away for 10 minutes to take a deep breath is healthy and safer!

I am more irritated with people giving me crappy advice to make DS stop crying. If I am at my wits end don't you think I have tried everything and more?

Ok, I thought you were talking abotu the drama that has blown up the board today...which is about CIO. I agree that walking away for 10 minutes to get your sanity is sometimes necessary.

I'm sorry I'm not a mind reader....and assume that this fits into the context of what the board is talking about right now.

heather_09_15_07 · April 2010

murfygirl:
heather_09_15_07:
IrishBrideND:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

You have no idea what the hell I am talking about. I don't leave DS for 7hrs but I hold him while he cries for 7hrs. Sometimes walking away for 10 minutes to take a deep breath is healthy and safer!

I am more irritated with people giving me crappy advice to make DS stop crying. If I am at my wits end don't you think I have tried everything and more?

It's not all about you, you know.

IrishBrideND · April 2010

a4smith:
Pretty sure there was not one specific post I was referring to...just in general. Did I say in my OP that I was talking about a specific post?

Again, not a mind reader. Hence why I asked.

a4smith · April 2010

IrishBrideND:

a4smith:
Pretty sure there was not one specific post I was referring to...just in general. Did I say in my OP that I was talking about a specific post?

Again, not a mind reader. Hence why I asked.

True True

a4smith · April 2010

Seriously though LoL one bumpie tried telling me I should not have my 2 month old in his jumperoo...that I should wait till he is four months...WTF? LoL who are these people and where do they get off? HaHa I know my own baby thank you

sleepingbeauty825 · April 2010

murfygirl:
I am more irritated with people giving me crappy advice to make DS stop crying. If I am at my wits end don't you think I have tried everything and more?

Me too! I think if you're a regular Bumpie and you say you've tried everything, people should not suggest basic things like "did you try swaddling". Don't know how you would regulate that though. As far as IRL goes, I just smile and go on about my day.

Sara8 · April 2010

murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

YES YES YES YES YES THIS!! Thank you for sayin that!

murfygirl · April 2010

heather_09_15_07:
murfygirl:
heather_09_15_07:
IrishBrideND:
murfygirl:

WOHOO!!! LOL

I am tired of everyone on here who has normal non colicky/reflux kids saying that they would never let there baby cry for 7 hrs. Guess what perfect mother I cant make him stop!!!! DOn't you think I tried the damn paci, noise maker etc but thanks for your crappy advice!

I'm pretty sure they are saying they won't LEAVE lo to cry fro 7 hours. LO cries that long, but I would never put her down for 7 hours and walk away.

You have no idea what the hell I am talking about. I don't leave DS for 7hrs but I hold him while he cries for 7hrs. Sometimes walking away for 10 minutes to take a deep breath is healthy and safer!

I am more irritated with people giving me crappy advice to make DS stop crying. If I am at my wits end don't you think I have tried everything and more?

It's not all about you, you know.

Yes, it is!

sarajo317 · April 2010

mrsfox1369:

I try to give my advice but I'll admit, even I have no idea what I'm doing lol. I get infront of my MIL and DD starts fussing and if I can't get her to calm down I feel like I'm a failure as a mother in her eyes... and she only ever gives me 2 minutes to calm her down before trying to rip her out of my arms.. I hate that.

My FFFC.. I am so embarressed by DD. She has man farts and she'll fart everywhere and people think it's me!!! Oh and they smell HORRIBLE. lol.

do we have the same MIL?

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