I really just needed some encouragement and I appreciate the confidence you all gave me.
I hope my husband and I can come to an agreement soon and that I'll get to post here more often! (He leans towards either a gestational surrogate or a "one and done" situation.)
Either way, I'll probably still lurk. I love reading all the wonderful success stories here!
Thanks again!
Re: I DD'd. Thanks so much for the responses!
I didn't get to see your original post, but your "one and done" made me smile. We were a "one and done" family when we adopted our son last year. We had always wanted one child. Our agency said to us when we were in the hospital that they would put money on the fact that we'd be back this year to pick up a little girl. I told them they were crazy and that even if we changed our minds it wouldn't be this year.
I'm now eating my words!