Do any of you worry about the vaccines your LO gets? So far, I have stuck to the regular schedule. However, my coworker was just telling me that her nephew died 9 months ago of SIDS after receiving his 2 months shots earlier that day. I'm terrified now. At the same time, I don't want my DS to contract diseases either. How do you solve that conflict within yourself if it exists?
Aiden Charles


Re: Vaccines
never in my life have I heard there is a connection between vaccines and SIDS. Maybe I a missing something but SIDS is an unexplained cause of death.
My child get vaccines however on a spread out program getting no more than 2 individual vaccines in a month
we are spacing DD's out, our pedi does the schedule that the parent is comfortable with.....so we do this:
DTap, polio, HIB, rotavirus = 1 shot and 1 oral at 2, 4 and 6 months
pneumococcal (PCV7) = 1 shot on alternating months (3,5 months etc) until complete
DD has never had a fever, been fussy or been sick after any of her shots. it is an extra drive to the pedi on the alternate months that she doesn't have a full visit but the nurse administers the shot and it only takes a few minutes.
It's definitely a very personal decision whether or not to vax or delay vaxs. I personally had a very bad feeling before we went for DD's 4 month shots. I decided to cancel the appt. and do more research on alternate schedules. Our pedi will not do an alternate schedule, and DH and I have decided that that is the route we want to take. So we are finding a new pedi. I feel very good about my decision and feel like we made the right choice for our DD.
Concerning the diseases - we rarely leave the house. DD and I are home all day and she's almost never around other children. I hardly think she'll catch a life-threatening illness from the grocery store, especially if I'm wearing her in a carrier. Besides, she's not not getting the shots, she's just not getting them all at once.
I recently wrote a blog post about this exact thing. https://lifewithvivianlem.blogspot.com/2010/04/finding-alternative.html
Honestly, the 2 month shots are the worst. (For moms that is) DS freaked out when he got his and I even cried cuz I felt so bad for him! Then it was time for his 4 month shots and I was freaking out but to my surprise he hardly reacted. He cried for like 10 seconds but as soon as I picked him up he was fine.
I asked for DDs shots to be spread out, not because of SIDS or Autism, but mainly because I think that's a lot of shots to give a little baby all at once, IMHO.
My pedi is great and is accommodating us with a spread out schedule similar to the one posted above, and I feel much more comfortable now.
We did a post about this earlier:
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/35854129.aspx
and we are waiting on the Hep.B shots....pedi said it is fine because DD is not going to daycare.
i questioned it prior to her birth after i found out it was recommended to be done with the vit.k right after birth. dr agreed with me that it does not need to be done right away, i don't have it. she only got the vit. k at time of birth.
I am totally all for vax's. If you want to do them more spread out and your pedi does that, go for it. I have done so much research, and come from a long line of doctors (my mom, dad, sister, and brother in law) and all say its totally safe. I LOVE my pedi- he's very up front about giving all the info on the vax's, but if you choose not to- he will not be your pedi.
totally off topic but my DH is a HUGE wings fan and would totally make dd wear that if he knew it existed. lol
That's a great article and I 100% agree that it's purely coincidence based upon the time in which infants are most at risk for SIDS.
I feel very strongly about getting DD vaccinated based upon the American Academy of Pediatrics timeline. We will not be deviating from this schedule at any point in time.