Update - DH breaking out of Rehab

crzygirl · April 2010

OK I am joking about the title of the post.

DH was released after completing 30 days of rehab and he was given a letter stating that he attending every meeting and was motivated, thoughtful, and shared at all the session.

I picked him up on Tuesday evening. He came home unpacked, ate dinner with us as a family, and then went to an AA meeting. He then returned and help me put our DD to bed in her own bed.

The next morning he got up at 7 am, showered, dressed. He then got DD up and dressed, fed and hung out with her for 90 min. Our nanny did not know what to do with all her free time so she started cleaning. He took the dog for a hour and a half walk and then went to another AA meeting.

In the afternoon he mowed the grass and trimmed the edging and did other yard work. Then in the evening we had dinner together and he cleaned out the inside of my car and finally went to another AA meeting.

I am sure this blow by blow description is boring but I just wanted to share that he is acting GREAT! I am sure it will not always be like this but he is really trying and I am so proud of him.

He is talking to me and telling me when he has urges to drink or take prescription meds. We are communicating openly and it feels so nice and normal.

I am still scared that there are so many tough challenges ahead. I will not live my life blind to his actions now or in the future. I will need to be vigilant.

Thank you all for your support here as well as your kind thoughts and prayers. You have no idea how great a source of comfort you have been for me. I am forever grateful to you.

KKM · April 2010

I am so happy to hear that things are going well so far. I know you will have a long road ahead, but getting off on the right foot is always great.

Sammy-Mae · April 2010

That is amazing progress. I am happy for you and your husband.

bieanca · April 2010

Awesome news! Hope it continues for all 3 of you.

Gina418 · April 2010

Great update! Hopefully he stays on the path he is on!

102503Natalie · April 2010

This is the first I'm reading about your DH's addiction and his recovery, and I must say that I'm very hopeful that he'll be able to continue on this path and be able to control his addictions and live a functional and healthy life with you and your DC.

vegetarian_chica · April 2010

I'm glad things are going so well and hope they continue to!

Amrice78 · April 2010

I'm glad to hear it

Brookie-Cookie · April 2010

sounds like a great first day hom. Good luck with everything.

kelbrian · April 2010

That is fantastic news. I hope and pray that his recovery continues to be successful. I am so happy for you all.

TMs1stBaby · April 2010

Wow - good for him. I am so happy that you guys are working through this. It takes a lot of strength. Don't forget to take care of you too!

haleybeth81 · April 2010

I'm so glad and thinks it's great he realizes how wonderful you guys are (and is showing you how much you mean)

meggiekins · April 2010

It sounds like he's doing so well! Good luck to your whole family, he's in my thoughts!

jc&cat · April 2010

I'm so happy to hear this news. I hope each day is stronger and stronger for your little family. Good luck!

mom2anangel · April 2010

This is a great update. I hope everything continues to go in a positive direction. I will pray that your husband stays on track and that you have the strength to work through this together as a family.

tarebear9891 · April 2010

That is great news! I have a close family member who went through similar struggles and AA has been a lifesaver for him. Take care of yourself!

mrsolsenk12 · April 2010

That is great that he is working so hard for his family.

star173 · April 2010

I am so glad to hear this!! I'm praying he stays sober and you guys can come out stronger on the other side. Thank you for keeping us updated.

blueshirt2003 · April 2010

Your post title scared me!!

I am glad to hear that things are going well.

kateland3 · April 2010

i don't post a lot over here, but i've been following your story. i'm glad your DH is doing well, and hope he continues on such a nice path. ((hugs))

Cytina · April 2010

Wow - that's a truly impressive start! Way to go DH - I hope he keeps it going - good luck to you and your family!

MegGary · April 2010

I'm so happy for him & for you. He should be congradulated at his success. So should you for sticking by his side. I hope his road to recovery continues. I wish you all the best.

LTGirl · April 2010

That sounds like a really encouraging start! Good luck to all of you.

Lisichka · April 2010

That sounds like a fantastic start! I hope he continues on this path, and good luck to you and your whole family!

C.P.C. · April 2010

YAY!!!! I hope it continues.

liz606 · April 2010

tarebear9891:
That is great news! I have a close family member who went through similar struggles and AA has been a lifesaver for him. Take care of yourself!

Ditto this. Best of luck, and hope things continue to go well!

happilyhis · April 2010

That's awesome! Best wishes for the future!

JLW10 · April 2010

That is fabulous news! I am very happy for all of you and I hope he continues down this new path.

Echowysp · April 2010

I'm so glad that he did well and is home. I hope that he keeps his urges at bay so he can be there for you and your dd.

melissaandgreg · April 2010

great progress!! good luck to all of you

krys2729 · April 2010

this is really great. i have followed some of your posts, and it really sounds like your DH knows what he has to do to stay sober, and is doing it. congrats on your "rebuilt" family. stay strong!